This Be
By Diahn Ott and Melinda Owens
This BeMar 12, 2020
2.6 A True Jam
Melinda and Diahn have a jam session about Covid life, election stress, and podcasting lessons learned.
2.5 Vulnerability, dammit
Brene Brown Resources referenced in this podcast:
Books
Wholehearted Inventory
2.4 Knowing your Damn Value
Melinda and Diahn discuss the topic of self-esteem and self-worth, how they differ, how they correlate, and how we perceive our value in business, creativity, and relationships.
Show Notes:
2.3 Introversion
Diahn and Melinda discuss what life feels like as introverts in a world that values extroversion. They examine the ways they tried to fit into a culture where extroverts are considered the gold standard and how they learned to appreciate the personality traits that make them unique.
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Show Notes:
Psychology Today Definition of Introversion
Psychology Today Extroversion Introversion Test
2.2 Passive Aggressive
Melinda and Diahn break down the ways we deal with and dish out that sweet, sweet passive aggression. Is it ever appropriate? Do we handle it appropriately? Do we even know when we are using it as a defense mechanism?
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Recommendations for the week:
Gloria Steinem - My Life on the Road
Small Doses with Amanda Seales - Side Effects of White Women
2.1 Season Two
Melinda and Diahn are back after a nice, relaxing summer pandemic hiatus. They discuss what's been going on since May and how the break helped them process so many of the topics they covered in Season One.
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Recommendations:
Falling Upward by Richard Rohr
A Beautifully Foolish Endeavor by Hank Green
A Good Hard Look by Anne Napolitano
Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem
Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life by Jon Kabat-Zinn
17. Prime Time
Melinda and Diahn recap their first season of podcasting in this season-finale episode. They discuss what they learned, what made them uncomfortable, what made them proud, and what podcasting has changed in their personal lives.
Here are some quick recommendations for books to read while you're waiting for them to come back...
Untamed by Glennon Doyle
Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd
The Martian by Andy Weir
You can always find them on Instagram, too - look for live stories from Florida over the next week!
16. Boundaries
Diahn and Melinda explore the idea of boundaries in interpersonal relationships.
15. Retail Therapy
Melinda and Diahn discuss how the pandemic has changed their retail therapy habits, what they've learned from the restrictions on their shopping patterns, and what kinds of changes are needed to carry forward into the new world order.
14. Creativity
Diahn and Melinda tackle the unexpectedly difficult topic of creativity. What is creativity? Do you have to be a painter or musician to be considered creative? Where does it come from? Is it nature or nurture? Listen in as we dig deep into the topic with surprising results...
13. What it Be
Diahn and Melinda discuss how their original plan for the podcast has evolved into what it has become over the past 13 weeks, how implementing a daily intention check-in with each other has changed their weekly routines and why Diahn gets so fidgety when talking about her feelings.
12. the Reset
Three weeks into the pandemic, life starts to look less like a crisis and more like an opportunity to delve into what really matters and how to hit the reset button on some of the bad habits we've developed over the years. How can we effectively change and move toward the best versions of ourselves?
11. the Pandemic
Melinda and Diahn discuss life in the midst of the COVid-19 pandemic - how they are handling the stress and anxiety associated with being on safer-at-home regulations and the things that are bringing them joy and peace in the middle of the weirdest month ever.
10. the Tribe
Melinda and Diahn chat about the importance of the female friendships in their lives, how their own mothers modeled having friendships and how their own friendships have changed as they've aged.
9. Self Care (part 2 of 2)
Melinda and Diahn break down their self-care habits and make goals to improve their overall mental and physical well-being. Apparently, there's more to self-care than just hot baths, mani-pedis and massages! Who knew?
8. Self Care (part 1 of 2)
Diahn and Melinda dig deep and discuss their struggles with practicing good self-care habits. This episode gets a little long but it's filled with good insight and information into how women often view self-care in various ways...
7. the Personality Crisis
Melinda and Diahn explore their Enneagram Personality numbers to try and determine how their personalities affect their relationships with all the people they care about and what they can do to make those relationships even stronger.
6. the Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Middle Age
Melinda and Diahn break down the joys of aging in today's culture by examining what's really going on all up in here.
5. Us
In this episode, we talk about how we met and became life long friends - we also share a few of our favorite things!
4. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 2
3. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 1
In this episode, Melinda and Diahn tackle the question of what happens when the parenting skills you inherit from your own parents were the wrong things to pass along to your own children. This is part 1 of a two-part episode.
2. the Balancing Act
Diahn and Melinda discuss the various loads we carry as women - children, grandchildren, parents, marriage, health - and the ways they try to balance all the different pieces without dropping everything entirely.
1. the Beginning
Diahn and Melinda talk about what their families and what the podcast is going to be about - about the two slices of bread on either side of this sandwich generation.
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This Be the Intro
We are part of what is known as the sandwich generation - basically, two best friends trying to muddle our way through middle age. So, we hope you’ll join us weekly, starting January 16, as we try to navigate this sandwich generation bullshit of being stuck in the middle of a bunch of people who ask way too much of us and come out still possessing a sense of self and purpose.