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This Be

This Be

By Diahn Ott and Melinda Owens

Two women trying to navigate the sandwich generation - being stuck in the middle of a bunch of people who ask way too much of us and still come out possessing a sense of self and purpose.
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9. Self Care (part 2 of 2)

This BeMar 12, 2020

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2.6 A True Jam

2.6 A True Jam

Melinda and Diahn have a jam session about Covid life, election stress, and podcasting lessons learned. 

Oct 29, 202051:11
2.5 Vulnerability, dammit

2.5 Vulnerability, dammit

Melinda and Diahn finally decide to broach the subject they’ve been avoiding all year. Vulnerability.

Brene Brown Resources referenced in this podcast:
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Wholehearted Inventory
Oct 01, 202001:10:39
2.4 Knowing your Damn Value
Sep 24, 202001:01:14
2.3 Introversion
Sep 17, 202059:13
2.2 Passive Aggressive
Sep 10, 202001:00:46
2.1 Season Two
Sep 03, 202001:17:21
17. Prime Time
May 21, 202001:00:37
16. Boundaries

16. Boundaries

Diahn and Melinda explore the idea of boundaries in interpersonal relationships.

May 14, 202001:10:01
15. Retail Therapy

15. Retail Therapy

Melinda and Diahn discuss how the pandemic has changed their retail therapy habits, what they've learned from the restrictions on their shopping patterns, and what kinds of changes are needed to carry forward into the new world order.

May 07, 202001:20:19
14. Creativity

14. Creativity

Diahn and Melinda tackle the unexpectedly difficult topic of creativity. What is creativity? Do you have to be a painter or musician to be considered creative? Where does it come from? Is it nature or nurture? Listen in as we dig deep into the topic with surprising results...

Apr 23, 202001:07:03
13. What it Be

13. What it Be

Diahn and Melinda discuss how their original plan for the podcast has evolved into what it has become over the past 13 weeks, how implementing a daily intention check-in with each other has changed their weekly routines and why Diahn gets so fidgety when talking about her feelings.

Apr 16, 202001:07:24
12. the Reset

12. the Reset

Three weeks into the pandemic, life starts to look less like a crisis and more like an opportunity to delve into what really matters and how to hit the reset button on some of the bad habits we've developed over the years. How can we effectively change and move toward the best versions of ourselves?

Apr 09, 202001:24:23
11. the Pandemic

11. the Pandemic

Melinda and Diahn discuss life in the midst of the COVid-19 pandemic - how they are handling the stress and anxiety associated with being on safer-at-home regulations and the things that are bringing them joy and peace in the middle of the weirdest month ever.

Apr 02, 202040:51
10. the Tribe

10. the Tribe

Melinda and Diahn chat about the importance of the female friendships in their lives, how their own mothers modeled having friendships and how their own friendships have changed as they've aged. 

Mar 19, 202001:32:05
9. Self Care (part 2 of 2)

9. Self Care (part 2 of 2)

Melinda and Diahn break down their self-care habits and make goals to improve their overall mental and physical well-being. Apparently, there's more to self-care than just hot baths, mani-pedis and massages! Who knew?

Mar 12, 202001:17:12
8. Self Care (part 1 of 2)

8. Self Care (part 1 of 2)

Diahn and Melinda dig deep and discuss their struggles with practicing good self-care habits. This episode gets a little long but it's filled with good insight and information into how women often view self-care in various ways...

Mar 05, 202001:22:59
7. the Personality Crisis

7. the Personality Crisis

Melinda and Diahn explore their Enneagram Personality numbers to try and determine how their personalities affect their relationships with all the people they care about and what they can do to make those relationships even stronger. 

Feb 27, 202001:04:39
6. the Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Middle Age

6. the Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Middle Age

Melinda and Diahn break down the joys of aging in today's culture by examining what's really going on all up in here.

Feb 20, 202049:38
5. Us

5. Us

In this episode, we talk about how we met and became life long friends - we also share a few of our favorite things!

Feb 13, 202059:29
4. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 2
Feb 06, 202053:33
3. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 1

3. the Parenting Mistakes, Part 1

In this episode, Melinda and Diahn tackle the question of what happens when the parenting skills you inherit from your own parents were the wrong things to pass along to your own children. This is part 1 of a two-part episode.

Jan 30, 202032:16
2. the Balancing Act

2. the Balancing Act

Diahn and Melinda discuss the various loads we carry as women - children, grandchildren, parents, marriage, health - and the ways they try to balance all the different pieces without dropping everything entirely.

Jan 23, 202047:21
1. the Beginning
Jan 16, 202029:05
This Be the Intro

This Be the Intro

We are part of what is known as the sandwich generation - basically, two best friends trying to muddle our way through middle age. So, we hope you’ll join us weekly, starting January 16, as we try to navigate this sandwich generation bullshit of being stuck in the middle of a bunch of people who ask way too much of us and come out still possessing a sense of self and purpose.

Jan 03, 202002:03