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Ultimately Melissa

Ultimately Melissa

By Ultimately M
I Probably Should Have Been Hugged More As A Kid.
Exploring life into my 50's as a single, white woman of Hispanic decent--aka I'm a "Fake-xican".
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My Relationship with Alcohol Has Changed
What has changed? Mostly my attitude towards booze in general. I also talk about some goals for 2021.
December 25, 2020
Off The Wagon???
In this episode I talk about my decision to pause my fast from alcohol. Am I done? Will I see this challenge through to January 2021?
August 30, 2020
176 Days Sober: I Made It Without Crying!
After four(4) recording attempts, I finally made it through an entire episode without crying! I talk, briefly, about my experience with racism and I give my take on the current state of chaos in our nation.
June 28, 2020
147 Days Sober: May Was A Doozy!
In preparation for this episode, I realized I have been beating myself up, for a MONTH, for moving passed the honeymoon phase of this sobriety challenge.
May 30, 2020
133 Days Sober: Let's Get Naked And Drink!
At over 120 days sober, I took some time off from work and found myself obsessing about booze. (Apologies for the neighbor's dog barking in the background. I recorded this episode several times and I think the dogs knew it--because they were completely silent during editing. Bastards!)
May 17, 2020
131 Days Sober: Sober Shaming
My honest response to this very human reaction to sobriety.
May 14, 2020
123 Days Sober! My Thoughts On Alcoholics Anonymous
Does one size fit most? Maybe I'm just an odd-shaped peg. No shade today. Just my honest opinion on a world-wide program that does a lot of good for hurting people.
May 7, 2020
My 365 Day No Booze Challenge!
On January 5th, I decided to go one full year without alcohol. Today I'll explain how I made this decision; how I'm handling this new way of living, and what I miss and don't miss about drinking now that I'm over 100 days sober. 
April 24, 2020
Willoh At The Office
My 3yr old grandawesome, Willoh, stopped by my office. We talk about one of her favorite places to visit, her clothes, and her recent diet choices.
April 17, 2020
Shortest Podcast Ever
Intro. Tater. Outro.
March 21, 2020