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Uncoupled w/ Rah & Dot

Uncoupled w/ Rah & Dot

By Rah & Dot

It's not always love and war when it comes to co-parenting, especially when the relationship dies but the friendship still remains. Join Rah and Dot as they navigate co-parenting do's & don'ts, two rowdy kids, new relationships, and more on Uncoupled with Rah & Dot.
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Uncoupled w/ Rah & DotAug 26, 2019

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Ironically

Ironically

Hey Yall. What's Craccin? What's everyone been up to? Oh us, we just been out here thriving, getting our Blended Family thing together. That's right we had a Uncoupled Picnic!!! It was dope and all sides had alot of fun. Check out our latest episode for details!!!
Jun 12, 202140:37
Don't F*ck This Up

Don't F*ck This Up

Yerrrrr we back!!! Minor equipment issues but a couple hundred bucks later and we up and running. We both have gotten into new relationships that are healthy and have the potential to grow!! I wanna give a special shout to the suck- I mean to Dot's new Boo (no backsies fam). Now go and move many many miles away from me. I'm just playing, although I hear San Antonio is wonderful this time of year!!! Enjoy!!!
May 12, 202144:21
That's my Baby Daddy!!!

That's my Baby Daddy!!!

Yerr...what's good y'all. Today we taking the time out to Honor those special, God like beings. The Baby Daddies!! Yeah, yeah "but my Baby Daddy ain't ishh" ok, sorry to hear that...We talking about the great ones...such as myself, the self proclaimed Baby Daddy of the millennia!! So sit back, get ya laughs on and most Importantly.....Shower me and my Kind with the utmost Praise today!!!
Apr 24, 202128:35
Dot's Emotional Broadband

Dot's Emotional Broadband

Whats good ya'll! Today we have an interesting episode about relationships, healthy expectations of significant others, and if threesomes are meant to be had with wifey. Plot twist: Dot has a romantic interest of hers on as a guest. No, not the Dominican Webster... it's The Neighbor!!! Yep Dot's could be called "messy-ish" situation with her next door neighbor. Like, RIGHT next door! Check this one out, it's a can't miss!!!!
Apr 16, 202101:02:29
WEPA!!!!!

WEPA!!!!!

Dot, Dot, Dot smh... In this episode Dot talks about her wild and crazy dating adventures. We tap into some of her trash, toxic behaviors centered around her dating style and men she chooses. I basically spent the episode dropping countless gems of wisdom, which of course, Dot let whiz right over her head. Smh, I may have said a few disparaging remarks about a certain demographic..but I really love them though! Anyway check it out!!!

Mar 28, 202133:17
#MAFS: Chris Roast

#MAFS: Chris Roast

What's good y'all? We back and Dot is feeling wayyy better and like her normal self....well, the crying is also her normal self but let's continue. Today we have a fun, deep-dive into one of my favorite shows, Married at First Sight #MAFS. Check out this hilarious review and don't forget to hit us up on Twitter and IG @Uncoupled_pod!!!

Mar 11, 202142:03
In the Sh*ts

In the Sh*ts

Rah's back to a normal schedule so we're back to poddin! We catch up on things and get into our awareness work when I express some of my frustrations during my current 10-Day cleanse. Catch us on Twitter & Instagram at @Uncoupled_Pod and big shoutout to @DanaJdaily (on all platforms) for the new intro music!

Mar 05, 202132:38
A quick break...

A quick break...

Super quick break... like, 2 seconds... or weeks. 🥴
Feb 17, 202101:11
Friends without Benefits?

Friends without Benefits?

Can men and women really be friends with no strings attached? This week we call in Rah's best friend Gigi and discuss whether men & women can engage in healthy friendships WITHOUT sex. Do you have a best friend of the opposite sex that you've NEVER had sex with? Let us know on Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod! 
Feb 05, 202149:58
Village Building: Harmony

Village Building: Harmony

Rah's away so I invited my friend @ParentingWithHarmony over for a chat! Harmony shares her experiences as a parenting coach and we talk about her co-parenting story, the differences between Black & White child-rearing, and how our friendships can reflect our parenting styles. Head over to @Uncoupled_Pod to keep the conversation going!

Jan 31, 202147:55
5 Stages Part II

5 Stages Part II

We continue our discussion on the 5 Stages of Relationships this week as we explore keeping the relationship new, approaching relationships as a unit,  being emotionally available, pettiness, relationship expectations, and much more!

Join us on Twitter & Instagram @Uncoupled_Pod to keep the conversation going!

Jan 21, 202147:03
5 Stages of Relationships

5 Stages of Relationships

In this episode, we touch on the 5 Stages of a Relationships but only make it through the first two because the convo was too good. We go in about Attachment Styles, the relevancy of Love Languages, dating red-flags, and the social norm of monogamy. Head over to Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod to check out the article from this episode as well as links to find out your personal Attachment Style & Love Language. Let us know what yours are! Part 2 next week!
Jan 14, 202146:57
No, But for Real Though...

No, But for Real Though...

... Consistency? 

Happy New Year fam. 

Welcome us back on Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod!

Jan 08, 202131:03
Village Building: Shawana

Village Building: Shawana

This week we're kicking off our Village Building Series with author & life coach Shawana Singletary of Next Steps Coaching. Mostly classy with a dash of hood, we talk about dating as a single mom, her adorable 11 yr old twins, and of course zodiac signs bc I like that sh*t. This is a good one ya'll!  You can find Shawana & Next Steps Coaching via Instagram @NextStepsCoachingLLC.

Aug 17, 202001:03:54
Rahcast 2

Rahcast 2

Whats good Fam!! We're back with another highly requested, fan-favorite, world-renowned RahCast (at this point I'm carrying the show like a newborn but Dot's a hater). We talk about the toxicity of interracial relationships and y'all uncle, Terry Crews goofy ass. We also talk about who comes first in a relationship (God, spouse, or kids) and I do all of this while trying to keep Dot's ratchet ass in line. The things I do for greatness!!!

Aug 03, 202053:53
We Were Fighting 🤷‍♀️

We Were Fighting 🤷‍♀️

Listen, we have a good excuse for not being here for the past couple of weeks. We talk about Rah being dangerously close to getting cut, new entanglements (had to throw that in for SEO… IYKYK), & toxic celebs. I hop, skip, then jump in my bag because I’m TIRED of the internet making a joke out of the most inappropriate things (i.e. Meg & Tory) but Rah’s just here to get these jokes off (while justifying the abuse of women when it’s NOT “heinous”). Send hate tweets to Rah on twitter @Uncoupled_Pod.

Jul 25, 202050:24
Drop-In: George Floyd

Drop-In: George Floyd

In an emotional charged drop-in episode, Rah and I discuss whether or now we should take the kids to a protest in Foley Square, our thoughts behind the rebellion taking place in Minneapolis, white people taking accountability for their privilege, and how we can use awareness as a form of self care during these time.

UPDATE:

Four days after the public lynching of George Floyd, Derek Chauvin has finally been arrested and charged with third-degree murder & manslaughter.


May 29, 202035:44
Rony Tony

Rony Tony

Okay, home set up is lit! We're still working out some of the kinks because neither one of us are engineers but we're almost there. This episode we talk about our experiences with covid-19, gush over our dope kids, deep dive into the trash that is future, and bounce all over the place because we're glad to be back in front of the mics!

Make sure you follow us on Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod.

May 28, 202049:18
Hey Bighead...

Hey Bighead...

We got podcast equipment.

 It's on. 



May 17, 202001:47
It's been a long time...

It's been a long time...

When life hands you lemons, stomp them out and add agave! Things got super rocky at the end of 2019 and we had to step away from the mics to handle family business. We talk about what happened, my new found disability, go over Rah's dating list with intention, and our awesome kids. 

So grateful to have got over that hump and made it back to you guys! Check us (well, really Rah) out on Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod. I know I keep saying I'm working on the Instagram, but in 2020, I really kinda am.... Maybe. NO PRESSURE!

Dot.

Feb 06, 202050:54
Love You, But Nah

Love You, But Nah

What's craccin y'all, it's Rah! We back with another one. We been fine tuning our Pod techniques, getting the rust off, so we not out here looking like amateurs, you feel me? This week we talk about spirituality, dealing with rejection, and the elephant in the room.....No. We not fucking y'all. Stop asking. We get into detail about why us getting back together is definitely not in the future. So come thru, get y'all minds out the gutter, and further explore our dynamic. Hit us up @Uncoupled_Pod on twitter. We kinda poppin over there. Thanks for listening. 

Oct 26, 201953:59
Seasoned Sh*t Show

Seasoned Sh*t Show

We took a break and came back calling it Season 2! This episode was an organized shit show - clearly we forgot how to pod. I get into my conspiracy theory bag early, Rah introduces Rah's Rants where I give him ten uninterrupted minutes to say it with his chest. Spoiler: I interrupted. We also talk about Facebook dad groups, risk taking, and random fuckery. I promise we'll get a better posting rhythm going. We hear you. Don't forget to join the after-convo on twitter/ig @Uncoupled_Pod.

Oct 12, 201946:19
Celibacy + F**king Machines?

Celibacy + F**king Machines?

Yerrrr!!! What's good y'all? We back with another episode but it's going to be the last if Dot don't stop sticking her f**king hands in my plate!! She's had her fork in my food for years before and AFTER we deaded it. SMH. This episode we discuss celibacy, sex toys, and whether or not it's right to keep a kid from a toxic parent and their family. I also need a fine woman to buy me NBA 2K20. Ladies, hit me up @Uncoupled_Pod on twitter!
Sep 12, 201957:27
Fuckboi Rah

Fuckboi Rah

Summer's over, the kids are back with me, and Rah is on a rampage breaking hearts and taking names (not really, but it sounded good). This week Rah comes to terms with being a fuckboi, we argue about why I think it's unethical for trans women & men to disclose their former lives on the first date, crystal healing through your vag, and how I almost burnt my clit off doing a yoni steam. I can feel your judgment and I'd rather you just listen before jumping to conclusions.... Thanks for joining us again! Follow us on Twitter @Uncoupled_Pod and join the convo!
Aug 26, 201953:45
Angry Dot

Angry Dot

Hey what's up y'all. We back with Episode 5!! Well, it was recorded before episode 4, but we fam and y'all not judging us. In this episode we talk about male patriarchy and raising young Black Kings in this world. Dot shows a lot of her fire and passion this episode -- Almost had to choke her a few times and put her in her place. But she's crazy and I don't want those type of problems. Anyway check out this dope, thought provoking episode 🔥🔥!
Aug 12, 201901:07:49
Rahcast

Rahcast

YEEERRRRRR, it's Dot! i know, i know...  we're late, but thanks for sticking it out with us while we work out the kinks on our end! this episode (which should be episode 6, but to you it'll be episode 4) i let go of control (whoooosaaaah) and Rah takes the lead for a laid back hour of laughs. we talk about our worst dates, grosses first kisses, and play fuck, marry, kill! let us know what you think about this format (twitter @uncoupled_pod), we may do more of these!

Aug 01, 201901:03:33
The Breaks

The Breaks

It's Dot! This episode we dive into my breakup, tackle self-awareness, and my stalker tendencies.... Don't judge me!  And in true Rah form, he shoots his shot at Erica Mena when we discuss social media & relationships. I keep telling this man these women don't want him, but far be it from me to kill his dreams. We're on a roll here people! Follow us on twitter @Uncoupled_Pod.

Jul 14, 201901:04:01
Significant Others

Significant Others

Yo what up it's Rah - This week we discuss Dot's old ass crashing & burning on a motorcycle, healthy co-parenting bonds, and plain old ratchet toxic relationships. We also talk about "Family Vacations" with new spouses and why it probably wouldn't be such a good idea to get drunk and go to ya ex's wedding to hit on her friends and family 😑.... Ok, I just wanna say I was drunk probably  20 mins into this so.... check it out!!!!

Jul 05, 201901:05:05
Uncoupled INTRO!

Uncoupled INTRO!

Heeey, it's Dot! Welcomed to our premier episode of Uncoupled! 

We're excited to share with the world a co-parenting dynamic that has allowed Rah and I to reframe our once toxic relationship into the awesome Batman (me) and Robin (him) we are now. We hope that Uncoupled will inspire men and women to teach their children about love and forgiveness through healing their own relationships while moving forward. 

In this episode we briefly cover our break up (more on that to come), our current dating situations, and we spit some co-parenting knowledge that we learned by grueling trial and error.

Stick around, it's going to be fun!

Jun 29, 201950:26