UnDeletable Dad
By Tracy Poizner
UnDeletable DadJul 30, 2022
57. What's Positive Fatherhood Involvement? It's Proof That You Matter.
Drew Soleyn is a coach, creator of training programs for dads and director of Dad Central Ontario (Canada). Go to dadcentral.ca for loads of free resources and first class support for men to bring the best of themselves to parenting.
Click here to see the infographics about Positive Father Involvement:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1BHVlHmzqhph6EimJicTkaDIIRhfUF5yH?usp=sharing
Connect with Tracy by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a free 20-minute assessment and strategy session.
58. Putting Kids At The Center with Kate Anthony
It might seem counter-intuitive to invite a women's divorce coach as a guest to this podcast, but Kate Anthony is a voice of reason and a beacon of sanity for divorced mothers everywhere. Hers is a book you can confidently recommend (or gift!) to the mother of your children to help her make the wisest, most compassionate choices for your kids.
Kate is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide and author of "The D-Word: Making The Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage".
Visit kateanthony.com for more information or connect with her on Instagram @thedivorcesurvivalguide.
Reach out to Tracy at undeletabledad.com, or by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com
56. Confronting a Custodial Narcissist - with Dr. Leslie Austin
Dr. Leslie Austin is a clinical psychotherapist and nationally recognized expert on personality disorders. She's been featured on numerous network and syndicated TV programs for over 20 years. Visit her website at leslieaustin.com.
Book a complimentary session with Tracy to explore how to get back into contact with your alienated or resistant kids, how to deal effectively with a hostile coparent or how to restore your sense of sovereign fatherhood so your kids are drawn back into your orbit where they belong.
Contact tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a call.
55. Healing The Wounded Warrior - Lawrence Joss
You have to separate your wounded human from your superhuman job as a father. Lawrence Joss has created the perfect resource for this purpose!
Go to parentalalienationanonymous.com and sign up for a well-run, peer support 12-step group.
Reach out to me to get started on your accelerated path to magnetic potency as a father.
Book a call to explore what that might look like for you at tracy@undeletabledad.com or by filling out this brief questionnaire:
54. Parental Abduction? Try "Find My Parent"
Go to findmyparent.org to download the app and learn how you can work with Enrique to create your own website and help your kids to find you!
Reach out to me at tracy@undeletabledad.com and I'll work with you to create the material for your website - videos, messages, photos and more - that will prove beyond a doubt you were always the loving dad they know you are!
53. Surviving Single Fatherhood (of 5!) with Matt Sweetwood
Please stop whatever you're doing and buy this book:
"Leader of the Pack: How a Single Dad of Five Led His Kids, His Business, and Himself from Disaster to Success"
You can find Matt Sweetwood everywhere on social media with the handle @msweetwood.
My current project is guiding dads to expand their vision of family, fatherhood and legacy for multi-generational impact. I'd love to discuss how we might work together to achieve this for you. Find me @undeletabledad or by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com.
52. The Reality of Reunification
Reunification therapy can be life-changing and it can be a big waste of time and money. My guest Bob Finlay of Finlay Counselling and Mediation Services takes us behind the scenes to let you know how to choose the right therapist, how to prepare for success and how to know if your situation is not one that will likely be benefitted by this course of action.
Bob can be reached at bob@finlaycounselling.ca and through his website, finlaycounselling.ca.
You can find me at undeletabledad.com and tracy@undeletabledad.com. I'd be glad to set aside time to help you figure out your best next move!
51. The Stepdad Issue with Mike Haney
My guest is Mike Haney, coach and mentor for high-performing men who want to enjoy a high-quality home life to match what they produce in their professional life. Learn more about Mike at mancourage.com.
Reconnecting with your best self is the key to reconnecting faster and better with your children. Email me at tracy@undeletabledad.com to explore how I can support you in making your dream relationships a reality.
50. Breaking the Rules
Whoever designs the game makes the rules. Learn to be the game designer of your family's destiny and your own life.
PATRONUS COLLEGE begins September 21st. Visit undeletabledad.com or email tracy@undeletabledad.com to enrol in a program that will change your life and your children's future.
49. Living the Dark Horse Frequency of Fatherhood with Jesus Quinones
Jesus Quinones tells us how he got out of prison early and clawed his way back to his kids, dodging endless landmines and busting through brick walls along the way.
Jesus will be available to you weekly as your very own personal trainer of mental fitness when you enrol in PATRONUS COLLEGE, School of Magic for Alienated Dads.
Go to undeletabledad.com, click to learn more and take the decision to invest in the surest, fastest path to taking back control of your family dynamic and your future.
48. A Good Dad Goes To Jail
We left you last week with a cliffhanger - how did this mild-mannered father of four end up in prison, and what happened there to change his life forever?
Join Jesus and I for a 4-month training program for divorced dads called PATRONUS COLLEGE. It's the world's only school of magic for alienated fathers! You'll learn everything you need to know to beat parental alienation and it's tricky ways.
Here's what past students say:
"As a guy, and as a Dad, navigating parenting and custody issues it's hard. Adding Tracy to my team was the missing piece. Productive knowledge, and unique insights, have been extremely valuable into me and my kids having a better outcome. I can't say enough good things, and worth every penny. Thank you Tracy!" - John Noble, Patronus student and dad of 5.
"Tracy’s Patronus College course was life changing for me at a time in my life when I started to give up hope. I had been going through a horrible divorce for almost 6 years and through her Patronus College program I learned how to recognize hidden patterns of fear that were preventing me from reaching out to my children and ultimately from them being able to reconnect with me. I learned ways to communicate with my children that focused on showcase my strengths as a loving parent that contradicted everything my children were being told about me. Tracy has helped me tremendously and changed my entire approach. It was also really helpful being around other dads going through a similar situation as mine." - R.S., Patronus student, father of 4.
Visit undeletabledad.com for more information or go straight to
https://essential-training.thrivecart.com/patronus-school-of-magic/
47. A personal story of parental alienation with coach Jesus Quinones
Join Jesus in his Facebook group for divorced dads called Father Figures.
Visit undeletabledad.com to register for Patronus College or reach out to me at info@undeletabledad.com for a call to find out if you're a good fit for this program!
46. The Beating Heart of Fatherhood
The energy of masculinity lies at the heart of fatherhood. In this episode I delve into how this frequency functions as the ordering principle of your personality and what it brings to your family dynamic. PATRONUS COLLEGE is where you'll be trained in this high-level perspective of potent fatherhood and how you can use your paternal power to lead your family through dark times, laying the groundwork for security and happiness for yourself and your kids. Visit undeletabledad.com for more information or schedule a phone call with Tracy by emailing tracy@undeletabledad.com
45. Are You Encouraging Your Kids To Reject You By Staying Cool About It?
We've learned to raise kids by telling them what's right and wrong. How does this relate to allowing your kids to distance themselves from you?
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Reach me via tracy@undeletabledad.com to inquire about PATRONUS COLLEGE or 1:1 mentorship.
44. Rhythm: The Father's Song
Rhythm is your ticket to being perceived as the most reliable source of security in your child's world. Don't miss out on using this simple technique to establish yourself as the sovereign in your family dynamic.
Contact Tracy at tracy@undeletabledad.com for courses, programs and 1:1 private mentorship exclusively for the divorced father.
43. The Big Game: Innovating Fatherhood
Want to join me in Santorini? Let me hear from you at tracy@undeletabledad.com.
You'll also have an opportunity to join me remotely by signing up to receive a real-time body activation. Same deal - shoot me a message for more info.
42. Re-Imagining Fatherhood
This is from a livestream video I did on Facebook at UnDeletable Dad and YouTube @undeletabledad.
I'll be in Santorini Greece on May 6 doing a global upgrade of the masculine codes of fatherhood. For a live VIP experience, or to request a remote activation in real time, contact me at tracy@undeletabledad.com
41. Outsourcing could be killing your magic.
Outsourcing is getting power from outside yourself that you could be sourcing from within - and that is killing your magic.
Join me in Santorini, Greece for a magical single day VIP experience of activating power you've been holding in potential and showing you how to wield it to shape matter and circumstances in your physical reality. Maximum 3 spots available, $36K (two nights luxury accomodation for yourself and a guest, all meals and ground transportation included). Reach out at tracy@undeletabledad to apply.
40. ME, and my SHADOW
In the spirit of full disclosure, I'm talking today about my OWN shadows, and what happens when I work on them.
You can reach me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more information about my programs, including the DARK HORSE MASTERMIND which will run from April until October. The investment for that is $2500, and payment plans are available.
Visit my website, https://undeletabledad.com
39. How do you build a sustainable parenting strategy in the post-divorce dimension?
Parenting after divorce is a whole new ballgame - the old tricks don't work anymore and the old rules don't apply. In this episode, I share my top 5 tips for building your sustainable parenting strategy.
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You can find me on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracypoizner/
I'd love to hear from you - reach out to me at tracy@undeletabledad.com
38. Making Magic (The power of bedtime stories)
Restorative Parenting is no longer a live program but is available as a video course from https://undeletabledad.com/f/restorative-parenting-essential-training-for-divorced-dads-497
You can reach me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more information about my 6-month 1:1 personal coaching container.
37. Big take-aways from "Litigating Parental Alienation" by Ashish Joshi
In this episode, I read some of my favourite passages from "Litigating Parental Alienation", the bible on effective strategies for high conflict custody cases. If you don't have your copy yet, you can order it from the American Bar Association website: https://www.americanbar.org/products/inv/book/409061453/ or from amazon.com.
To connect with Tracy and learn more about her online courses, live group programs or her 6-month 1:1 mentorship offer, email her at tracy@undeletabledad.com or set up a free video conference here: https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/free-discovery-call
36. Attorney and Author Ashish Joshi on Litigating Parental Alienation - part 4
Ashish Joshi can be contacted through his website www.joshiattorneys.com . His book "LITIGATING PARENTAL ALIENATION" is published by the American Bar Association and is available through their website or from amazon.com.
Contact Tracy Poizner to chat about which of the UnDeletable Dad courses or programs are right for you, or to apply for 1:1 VIP mentorship. A free call can be scheduled here: https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/free-discovery-call
35. Ashish Joshi on Litigating Parental Alienation - part 3
Ashish Joshi is the author of "LITIGATING PARENTAL ALIENATION", published by the American Bar Association and available from their website, as well as through Amazon.
His website is www.joshiattorneys.com, be sure to check out the articles and videos available there.
For UnDeletable Dad programs, courses and 1:1 VIP mentorship, visit undeletabledad.com or book a call with me to discuss which option would best serve you.
Here's my calendar: https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/free-discovery-call
Don't forget to check out the UnDeletable Dad YouTube channel for my free video resources on parental alienation!
34. Ashish Joshi on Parental Alienation - part 2
Ashish Joshi talks about litigating parental alienation, which happens to be the title of his book. Litigating Parental Alienation is available in hard copy or digitally from the American Bar Association or Amazon.
His website is www.joshiattorneys.com
Contact Tracy for information about courses, group programs for divorced dads or 1:1 VIP mentorship at tracy@undeletabledad.com
33. Attorney and Author Ashish Joshi - Part 1
Ashish Joshi can be reached via his website, www.joshiattorneys.com
His book, Litigating Parental Alienation is available through amazon.com
You can contact Tracy for information about UnDeletable Dad courses, live programs and 1:1 mentorship at tracy@undeletabledad.com
32. Take Fatherhood To The Next Level
"The next level of fatherhood is where you feel just as connected to your kids when they’re rejecting you as you do when they’re hugging you, because you can just see the truth of it and the lies don’t land any more."
Visit undeletabledad.com or reach out about 1:1 coaching at tracy@undeletabledad.com
31. No More Mr. Nice Guy
No, you're not an asshole if you don't act as a unit with your ex in raising your children.
Need help to conjure the family life of your dreams? I invite you to enter the world's most impactful training ground for divorced fathers!
Patronus College is the world's first School of Magic created expressly for Alienated Dads, and if you feel like you’ve tried everything to no avail, it's the answer to your prayers.
I'll be teaching all the classes there, including Charms, Potions, Transfiguration and Defense Against The Dark Arts.
It's your best bet for holding onto your kids, AND your sense of humor!
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30. The Completely Irrational Guide to Surviving Parental Alienation
PATRONUS School of Magic for Alienated Fathers is accepting enrolments now. Go to https://essential-training.thrivecart.com/patronus-school-of-magic/
Email tracy@undeletabledad for more information or to ask about private mentorship.
29. The ENDGAME of Fatherhood.
The PATRONUS School of Magic for Alienated Dads will begin accepting enrolments for the fall session on September 1. Details to follow!
Meanwhile, visit undeletabledad.com for information about individual courses and 1:1 mentorships.
28. Working on your bluff game PLUS - what is "holding tension"?
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27. Here's what your ex is REALLY so mad about.
I'd love to see you in my next small-group mastermind, which will be a 4-month experience starting in September where you'll practise animating fatherly power codes to create the kind of changes you want to see in your family. Shoot me a message at tracy@undeletabledad.dom for more information and to get on the waitlist.
26. Stéphane Jutras on what happens when your teens want to live with you all the time.
Check out Stéphane's podcast The Divorced Dad Diaries via thedivorceddaddiaries.com or wherever you go to find podcasts.
You can reach me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more information about the evolution of parenting and consciousness.
25. Stéphane Jutras: The Divorced Dad Diaries part 1
What happens when the kids get to choose to be with dad all the time? Check out what Stéphane's kids have to say about their experience in these two podcast episodes from The Divorced Dad Diaries:
Episode 7: "Interview with my daughter" https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/episode-7-interview-with-my-daughter/id1484585003?i=1000478231951
Episode 12: Interview with my son" https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/episode-12-interview-with-my-son/id1484585003?i=1000492243598
You can reach me with questions or comments at tracy@undeletabledad.com.
Private coaching and mentorship with Tracy is available by invitation or referral - learn more at undeletabledad.com
24. Victim To Hero with Petra Deeter
Please visit Petra's website at victimtohero.com where you'll find a trailer for her new feature-length documentary "Parental Alienation: The Aftermath".
She has a Facebook page also called Victim To Hero and her workshop on "Future Communication With Your Child" can be accessed with this link:
https://fb.watch/cEa7n0tjGC/
You can reach me for information about courses and 1:1 mentorship at tracy@undeletabledad.com
23. Peter Maestrey asks "Where's the gold in this heap of shit?"
This is part 4 and the final installment of my conversation with filmmaker and podcaster Peter Maestrey. Peter's website is divorcethefirstsix.com and you'll find all his podcast episodes there. It's also available wherever you listen.
There's still time to register for "LIONTAMER: Win Back The Love And Loyalty Of Your Alienated Teenager". To learn more or to get on the waitlist for the next time I run this offer, shoot me a message at tracy@undeletabledad.com.
1:1 coaching is available by referral or invitation. Visit undeletabledad.com to request a free discovery call.
22. The Magical Apology
I'll be going deeper into how you can leverage the magic of apology to open a door between you and your alienated teenager in my new UnDeletable Dad community inside of Mighty Networks. It's free to join - sign up here:
https://undeletable-dad.mn.co/share/ovzThiWCRdCNC5WU?utm_source=manual
Learn more about the upcoming group training "LIONTAMER: Win Back The Love And Loyalty Of Your Alienated Teen":
21. Reversing Parental Alienation - a free livestream challenge!
Want to learn how to break the spell and win back the love of your alienated child?
Join my free livestream challenge Reversing Parental Alienation.
We start on March 23 (replays will remain available until March 30)
Sign up at bit.ly/reversingpas
20. The Absent Father: Peter Maestrey in conversation, part 3
Check out Peter Maestrey's wonderful podcast at DivorceTheFirstSix.com. I'm loving it even 20 years after my divorce!
Join my upcoming free livestream challenge Reversing Parental Alienation and discover how to help your kids find their way back to you without relying on the courts, the government or the mental health profession.
Click here to register: bit.ly/reversingpas
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2. How much does your ex matter?
Register for my free 3-day workshop "Parental Alienation - A Mighty Challenge" happening in our new community on Mighty Networks from Wednesday March 23 to Friday March 25. Email me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more info or jump into the UnDeletable Dad network by clicking here:
https://mightychallenge
Have you accessed my free Restorative Parenting Quickstart Guide? Grab it here:
https://tracypoizner.lpages.co/rp-quickstart-guide/
19. Guiding teenagers: Part 2 of Peter Maestrey in conversation.
Check out Peter Maestrey's wonderful podcast at https://divorcethefirstsix.com
You are cordially invited to join me in our brand new, very private network called UnDeletable Dad on Mighty Networks. Follow this link to RSVP:
bit.ly/mightychallenge
18. Peter Maestrey on Divorce - The First Six Months
Check out Peter Maestrey's wonderful podcast "Divorce: The First Six Months" at divorcethefirstsix.com.
You'll be hearing more about my upcoming free event about Parental Alienation on our new UnDeletable Dad network on the Mighty Networks platform but if you want to be sure not to miss out, join us there right away.
Follow this link for an invitation to Mighty Networks: https://undeletable-dad.mn.co/share/ovzThiWCRdCNC5WU?utm_source=manual
17. The End of Parental Alienation
It ends with a shift in consciousness and mastery of your emotions. Legacy Mastermind is your chance to make that happen for you in 8 short weeks. It starts Feb. 17th. Message me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for more information.
16. My grandfather's legacy
Here's what I got from my father, and from his father. No way either of them saw this coming!
Legacy Mastermind is an executive-coaching level experience for a limited group of dads interested in liberating trapped power, charisma and magnetism so they can rise to the challenge of being a strong, confident leader for their family.
Apply for one of only 6 spots available by contacting tracy@undeletabledad.com
The investment for this program is $5K, payable in full before the start date of Feb. 15.
15. Dismantling the Myth of Modern Fatherhood
Legacy Mastermind is for you if you're ready to stop settling for table scraps and take your place at the head of your family table as the unreachable, legendary father your kids deserve. This 8 week container is limited to 6 participants and it begins on Feb. 15th.
Message me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for details.
14. On rolling your kayak
Join me for a 3-day training Jan 26-28 on Facebook or off-social if you prefer:
Stepfamily Dynamics Bootcamp: Chaos Mastery for Divorced Dads Sign up free at https://bit.ly/3days4dad
Looking for a premium 1:1 UnDeletable Dad mentorship experience? Go to undeletabledad.com and fill out the application form to book a discovery call.
13. Merry Xmas, and tell your ego to shove it!
Merry Christmas to you and yours, and I wish you a massive life upgrade for 2022 and beyond!
12. Do they really love the stepdad more than you?
If you're stuck spinning on how to get your kids turned back in your direction, do yourself a favor and buy my video course, Restorative Parenting. You'll be back in the drivers' seat in no time. You can even get optional 1:1 support from me as you go through the program!
Here's the link: https://essential-training.thrivecart.com/restorative-parenting/
For information about my 1:1 mentorship, reach out to tracy@undeletabledad.com.
11 Becoming More Magnetic
The Sigma masculine is the one who holds the key to being a magnetic presence for your children. It involves undertaking a journey through your worst fears - your "worst-case scenario" - but the prize is getting to live life with no second-guessing yourself and not allowing anyone else to undermine your power.
Contact me at tracy@undeletabledad.com for information about courses and 1:1 private consultancy.
Power vs. Force is by David. R Hawkins, MD, PhD.
10 Jeff Hoffman
"I'll give you room to fail, but I'm right there". More sage advice from Jeffrey Hoffman in this third part of our conversation about fatherhood after divorce. Jeff is the originator and co-host of the Visible Man discord server, which you can find at https://discord.gg/wMZrZYY66j
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You can reach me at tracy@undeletabledad.com with questions or comments. Private clients are accepted by invitation and referral.