Freedom Reigns
By Freedom Reigns
God’s Not Holding Your Love Life Hostage—You Might Be
Sis… what if the delay in your love life isn’t God’s doing—but yours?
In this episode, we’re dismantling the faith-based excuses that keep women stuck in cycles of passivity, frustration, and disappointment. You’ll learn the difference between bold faith and inactive hope, why your strategy matters just as much as your prayers, and how to move from waiting to walking in alignment.
We’ll unpack the story of Esther, a woman who didn’t just pray for favor—she positioned herself for it. And I’ll give you the truth, tools, and tough love to help you stop hiding behind clichés and start winning at love.
🔥 If you’re ready to stop praying in circles and start preparing with purpose, this is your episode.
Plus, don’t miss the details on the Love Before Labor Day Challenge starting soon!
Stop Waiting, Start Working: The Truth About God’s Timing in Love
Sis… how long are you going to sit around “waiting on God” while doing absolutely nothing to prepare for what you’re praying for? 😅 In this table-shaking episode, I’m coming for all the played-out Christian dating clichés—“keep the faith,” “trust God’s timing,” “when you least expect it”—and giving you the truth: God’s timing isn’t random, but it does require your participation.
We’re digging into the psychology of passive waiting, the Bible’s blueprint for bold moves (Ruth and Esther weren’t just chillin’), and why some women are still single—and it has nothing to do with men. I’ll share dating coach insights, real talk, and a few gems from my book No More Lonely Nights, but the real invitation? It's time to take action and join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge. Early Bird ends soon, so don’t miss it.
🎯 This is Decision Week. Faith needs your feet to move.
📘 Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights
💥 Join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge now
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Stop Settling for Noise #newmotivation
Loneliness has a way of turning up the volume on our fears, doubts, and desire for connection—sometimes so loud, it drowns out discernment. In this #NewMotivation episode, I’m taking you into the story of Leah in Genesis 29 to show how desperation for love can lead us to settle for the noise of attention instead of the substance of real connection. Sis, it's time to stop performing to be chosen and start posturing yourself in praise, purpose, and preparation.
This quick, 7-minute heart check will help you identify the places where you're settling out of fear, shift your focus back to God, and remind you that you are not forgotten—you’re being fortified.
Grab your journal, your favorite tea, and let’s go there.
The Real Cure for Loneliness: Preparing for Love While You're Waiting
Are you tired of lonely nights and wondering when your love story will finally begin?
In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives deep into the truth about loneliness, why it’s more dangerous than we realize, and how to turn this season into one of preparation, healing, and hope.
Loneliness isn’t just a feeling — it can quietly sabotage your standards, your heart, and your future if left unhealed.
Discover the real difference between singleness and loneliness, the hidden dangers loneliness creates, and how to work while you wait and prepare while you pray.
Coach Vee shares practical steps to heal emotional wounds, build a full life now, and position yourself for Kingdom love — not counterfeit connections.
You'll also hear a fresh take on Ruth’s story and how purpose, not pursuit, placed her exactly where God needed her to be.
If you're ready to move from lonely nights to purposeful preparation, this episode will meet you where you are and guide you to where you're called to be.
Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights and start building the life and love you deserve today!
Is your Attachment Style Sabotaging your Love Life?
Smart Dating Moves: How to Stop Playing and Start Winning
Sis, it’s time to change the game. If you’re tired of confusion, inconsistency, and wasting time on men who don’t align with your vision, this episode is for you! In today’s conversation, we’re diving into how to date smarter, not harder—how to stop ignoring red flags, protect your heart, and move with clarity and confidence.
I’m breaking down:
✅ The difference between passive dating vs. intentional dating
✅ Why so many women ignore red flags (and how to stop!)
✅ Emotional discipline and how to date without getting attached too soon
✅ The key mindset shifts to avoid toxic cycles and finally win at love
It’s time to date like a woman who knows her worth. No more wishful thinking—let’s get strategic.
💖 Ready to take your dating life to the next level? Enrollment for New Heart Academy is open! DM me “NHA” on Instagram or visit www.newthinglifecoaching.com/nha to join.
🎧 Press play, take notes, and let’s get you winning at love!
💕 #WinAtLove #SmartDatingMoves
Dating 201: Going Beyond Surface Attraction
Sis, let’s talk. If your dating life feels like a never-ending cycle of first dates that gonowhere, it’s time to make some changes!Attraction might get you a date, but it won’t keep you in the game. If men aren’t following up, if you’re constantly left on read, or if you can’t seem to get past date #1—this episode is for you!
In thispowerful, no-nonsense episode, I’m breaking down:
✅Why most first dates never lead to a second (and how to change that!)
✅The biggest mistakes women make on first dates that kill connection
✅How to stop treating dates like job interviews and create real chemistry
✅The psychology behind why men pursue or pass (this will shock you!)
✅Practical strategies to move beyond surface-level attraction and build deeper interest
✨ Plus, I’m spilling details onFriday’s MIT Training: Get a Date in 14 Days—so if you’re ready togo from waiting to dating, don’t miss this one!
🎯Ready to date with intention and win at love? Grab your copy ofNo More Lonely Nights!Chapter 15, "Get Out There," is your playbook for dating well and attracting the RIGHT man.Grab ithere!
🎧Listen now & let’s get your dating life moving in the right direction! 🚀💃🏽
The Power of a Love Vision: How Clarity Attracts your Ideal Man
🎙️ Sis, let’s talk… Are you tired of attracting the wrong men? Stuck in situationships that go nowhere? Wondering why your love life feels like a cycle of confusion and wasted time?
Here’s the hard truth: If you don’t have a clear love vision, you will keep attracting chaos, uncertainty, and heartbreak.
In this episode, I’m breaking down:
🔥 Why clarity is the missing piece in your dating life
🔥 How a lack of vision keeps you stuck in cycles of disappointment
🔥 The 3 pillars of a strong love vision (Who You Are, What You Want, and Who You Want It With)
🔥 Why ‘waiting on God’ without action is keeping you single
🔥 Step-by-step guidance on how to create your own Relationship Blueprint
If you’re ready to stop wasting time and start attracting the RIGHT man, this episode is for you! And to help you take the next step, I’m giving you a FREE Relationship Blueprint template inside my Write the Vision Workshop so you can start this work tonight!
🚀 Listen now and take control of your love life!
🎯 Sign up for the FREE Write the Vision Workshop + Relationship Blueprint: www.newthinglifecoaching.com/workshop
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#WinAtLove #LoveVision #KingdomDating #GodlyLove #WriteTheVision
Winning at Love starts with God: Cultivating a Strong Relationship with Him while Single
📢 Ladies, let’s talk about it—your love life starts with your relationship with God!
If you’re frustrated with dating, feeling stuck in cycles of disappointment, or wondering why things just aren’t working out, it’s time to shift your focus. In this episode, I’m breaking down why cultivating a strong relationship with God is the first step to winning at love and how inner peace leads to better decisions in dating.
🎙 Inside this episode, we’ll cover:
✔️ Why your love story starts with God, not a man
✔️ How seeking God first transforms the way you date and who you attract
✔️ The connection between inner peace, better boundaries, and stronger discernment
✔️ Practical ways to deepen your relationship with God in your single season
📖 Key Scripture: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you.
💡 Ready to break free from dating frustration and truly align with God’s best for your love life?
📚 Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights—inside, I walk you through the CONNECTION Flow Method, the 10 steps every Christian woman needs to find her person. Click the link in the show notes to get started!
👑 It’s time to stop chasing love and start dwelling in God’s love—because when you do, everything changes.
Tune in now! 🎧✨
Unleashing Godly Feminine Power: The Key to Attracting Purposeful Love
In this episode, we’re diving deep into Godly feminine power and how tapping into your inner strength and spiritual gifts can transform your love life. As a Christian woman, you are uniquely designed with divine power that aligns with God’s purpose for your relationships.
Join me as I unpack:
✨ What it means to access and embrace your feminine essence.
✨ How to discover and utilize your spiritual gifts in dating and love.
✨ Practical ways to align your relationships with God’s will.
You’ll walk away with tools and encouragement to step into your power, cultivate purposeful love, and reflect God’s glory in your relationships.
Want to go deeper? Tune in to tomorrow’s live training in The SAS Tribe called Power of She, or check out New Heart Academy for the transformational Power of She: Accessing Your Assets course.
Don’t miss this powerful conversation—it’s time to unleash the woman God created you to be!
Dating with Discernment: Recognizing and Addressing Red Flags
Red Flags or Harmless Quirks? How to Discern and Navigate Warning Signs in Dating
In this episode of Freedom Reigns, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges in modern dating: recognizing and addressing red flags without losing yourself in the process.
Too often, we ignore the signs that something isn’t right because we’re holding onto hope, afraid of starting over, or simply unsure if it’s really a big deal. But ignoring red flags can lead to heartbreak—and that’s not God’s best for you.
Join me as I break down:
✨ The difference between quirky habits and genuine red flags.
✨ Subtle signs we often overlook and why we ignore them.
✨ How to trust your intuition and listen for God’s guidance.
✨ Practical advice for addressing red flags with grace.
✨ Knowing when to extend grace and when it’s time to walk away.
This episode is packed with wisdom, truth, and real-life examples to help you protect your peace, honor your standards, and align your dating life with the love you’ve been praying for.
🎧 Tune in now and take one step closer to dating with discernment and confidence!
Meeting your Man God's Way
If you’re serious about finding love this year, this episode is your guide to faith-filled dating and intentional relationships. Plus, I’ll be sharing gems from my new book, No More Lonely Nights, to help you along the way!
🎧 Tune in now and get ready to make this your season of love.
Rebuild your Love Language in 2025!
It's the first of the month, meaning it's time for a #newmotivation episode! I want to motivate you to take intentional action towards your love goal by understanding and applying principles of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 to your romantic and personal growth journeys.
You're in your Season of Becoming!
Feeling stuck or lonely in your singleness this holiday season? Sis, this isn’t a season of lack—it’s a season of becoming! In this #NewMotivation episode, I’m breaking down how to embrace this transformative time, shift your perspective, and prepare for the love and life you deserve. Tune in for encouragement, empowerment, and a reminder that your best days are ahead!
Stop the Self-Sabotage (#newmotivation)
What can you learn from King Saul as it pertains to your dating and love life? Let's dive in for November!
Boyfriend vs Husband
What does a grown woman even do with a boyfriend as a Christian woman?? Sis, let's talk about it!
The Problem with Love
Why do so many people struggle to love themselves and others? How does trauma impact our ability to give and receive love? Join me as we explore the connection between God's love, self-love, and healing after pain, with practical steps for finding real, lasting love.
Honor WHOEVER you Choose (#newmotivation)
God is less concerned with who you end up with. He's more concerned with what you do with your decision! Tune in for some September motivation!
Navigating Relationship Dependency: Balancing Independence, Codependence, and Intimacy
In this episode of Freedom Reigns, we're diving into the complexities of relationship dependency and how to navigate the delicate balance between independence, codependence, and intimacy. We'll explore the signs of codependency, why maintaining a sense of self is essential for healthy relationships, and how to foster genuine intimacy without losing your individuality. Whether you're struggling with feeling too dependent on your partner or unsure how to build a strong emotional connection, this episode will provide practical tips and insights to help you create more balanced, fulfilling relationships.
The Power of Intimacy in Godly Relationships
In this episode, we explore the essence of intimacy in Godly relationships—beyond the physical. Learn how to deepen emotional, spiritual, and intellectual connections rooted in faith. Whether single, dating, or married, discover practical tips to strengthen your bond and experience love as God intended—transformative and enduring.
Self-Love 201
Knowing you need to do better with loving yourself so you make better choices in life and love? Then tune in as I dive deep with what self-love is, why it's important, signs it's lacking, and how to increase it!
Obtaining a Wife Mindset NOW!
Before you begin Dating... (#newmotivation)
Diving Deep into the Rough Waters of the Modern Dating Pool
Struggling to swim in the murky waters? I want to help you navigate modern dating!
Teaching a Man to Love you?
Progress if you want to Win at Love!
2024, this is your year. But you have to progress, and stop procrastinating!
The Truth about Infidelity
How to Deal with a Broken Heart
Heartbreak. Something I know all too well. I have my own story to share, and I want to help you deal the pieces of your broken heart. Because there's hope!
Loving yourself Beyond the Lies (#newmotivation)
Moving Past Rejection
Get out of the Boat so you can Win at Love (#newmotivation)
10 Things to Give in Datingships
How to Win at Love (#newmotivation)
7 Deadly Sins of Dating
Healthy Heart Habits to Help you Win at Love
Why you need a New Bed as a Single Woman"
Your current bed is keeping you single, so it's time to clean it out NOW!
The Power of Words in your (Desired) Love Life
How A.I. is Hurting your Relationships
Why you should be a BARBIE in your Dating life!
Mistakes Marriage-Minded Daters DON'T Make!
How to Build a New Dating Pool
*Don't worry. The WTF isn't what you think. Tune in so we can do something about the pool you're swimming in.
Do this 1 Thing to Change your Dating Results!
How the need for Love keeps you Single
The #1 Thing Hindering Single Christian Women!
Is your Single Heart Disconnected? (#newmotivation)
Teach me how to Attract Serious Men!
Teach me how to Get out of my own Way!
How are you possibly in your way when it comes to dating? I know, people make it seem as if women are the issue today. But I want to give you another perspective and some things to consider. Tune in!
Show up and Stand Out (#newmotivation)
Teach me How to Date!
Dating today stressing you out a bit? Feel as if you're not getting any real help when it comes to successfully dating and getting far in the process? Tune in for 7 tips that'll drastically change your dating life!
