Vintage Dialog Radio

In this best of season 4, we talked about dating and relationships, being submissive to your man, side chicks and work husbands and so much more. These episodes were spicy and so was my panel. My mom even stopped by to talk about AI and the future of technology.

Season 5 coming in the Spring! See you soon!

Host: s.m.gaines

Co-Host: Ray Gaines - RAYZURGAME

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In Part 1, One of our listeners wrote in to ask us for help. Is his wife cheating? He agreed to come on to give us an update. Did he confront his wife? Can his marriage be saved?

Host: s.m. gaines

Guests: Ray from Rayzurgame Coaching

Drew Kelly from Thug Therapy Podcast

Friend to the Show: Blades

One of our VPs wrote us a love note to ask for our help. He wants to know if his wife is cheating on him.

After asking to see his wife's phone, he just recently found out that his wife is still texting her high school ex-boyfriend. He read text messages like, "I love you’" and her response was, "I love you more!’" She claims that they never had sex and that he is recently divorced.

Let's talk about it.

1. How can he find out if they are more than just friends?

2. What can he do to stay one step ahead of her?

3. Is it normal for a married woman to say, ‘I love you’ to a male friend?

4. Lastly, he needs to know if it was ok for him to go through her phone without her permission.

You don't want to miss this hot episode! Listen until the end to hear what advice we gave to our VP.

Your BFF ghosted you. Here's why!

Host: s.m. gaines

Perry Taylor, CEO of PMT Fitness, joins us to discuss his inspiration for starting his company, workout tips and more. 

At some point in our lifetime, we will all experience losing someone that we care about. 

Today's episode is a raw and uncut conversation with Co-Host Ray Gaines as he discusses the death of his mother and how group therapy saved his life.

Forensic Therapist, Drew Kelly, returns to discuss the 5 stages of grief and how to cope with feelings of loss.

We hope this episode will give you some support and help you with the pain you may be going through now.

Host: s.m. gaines

Our special guest is Computer software professional and field engineer Margaret Gaines. We talk about diversity in the tech industry.

Are IT jobs threatened by Artificial Intelligence?

What are some of the challenges for women in technology?

Do you need a college degree to enter the industry or is a certification enough to get your foot in the door? 

Advice about career changes into technology and more! You don't want to miss this episode.

Host: s.m. gaines

The Best of Season 3 is all about relationships and dating. We even had a few love notes sent into the show. The guest panels held nothing back in season 3.

Make sure to tune into the premier of Season 4 for special Black history month episodes!

Host: s.m. gaines

Co-Host: Ray Gaines

Men have standards too. Are they getting a bad Rap when it comes to sex?

Host: s.m. gaines

Co-Host: Ray Gaines

If you use Bumble, then this episode is for you! Dating app tips and more!

Host: s.m.gaines

Co-Host: Ray 

Why do women lie to men in the (Bedroom) Isn't easier to be truthful?

Host: s.m. gaines

Co:Host: Ray Gaines

Guest: Tiffany M.

Fellas. Don't kiss and tell. Why you gotta  run and tell them that you're smashing!  Your homie is waiting for you to slip up.

Host: s.m. gaines

Co-host: Ray Gaines

Guest: Tiffany M.

Tune in to find out how to repair and build your credit. 

With special guest Vanessa Simon, Consultant of Credibility Services

What is the difference in the Three Credit Bureaus? Can you buy a house with a 580-credit score?

Can you purchase a home with a bankruptcy? Raise your score ASAP! 

How do you play the "Collections Game" with those pesky creditors?

We cover these topics and much more!

Host s.m. gaines for inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com

In this next episode of What's up with that? We have a short discussion about Polyamorous relationships. Are you ready?

Host: s.m. gaines

Co-Host: Ray Gaines

Dating after a divorce or separation can be challenging. It's not easy dating over 50 because there are slim pickings out there; especially for women over 50. And when older women date younger men, they are labeled as Cougars! In this episode, we have a small panel to discuss,

"It's ok to be picky if you are dating over 50."

What's up with That? Vol: 7 That potential BOO is FINE AF. How much are you willing to risk for one night?! 

Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!

Today's topic:  Would you sleep with a PERFECT 10 if you knew that person was a STALKER? Let's talk about it.

What's up with that? Vol 6 *Warning. This episode is explicit and contains content for mature audiences. 

Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!

Today's topic: Ladies, would you dump your significant other if he was a 1-minute man?

Or would you hang in there because you really care about him?

What's up with that? Volume: 5

Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!

Today's topic: Should you be worried is all of a sudden, your significant other is too FREAKY? Where did they learn those new skills?

What's up with that Vol 3: Facebook is not Bumble or Tinder so why are people violating the inbox? Stay outta there!

On today's episode we discuss - Is Facebook a dating APP now? Stay outta my INBOX!

How Do women REALLY feel about those unsolicited d*** pics?

We discuss the long-term impact of growing up without one or both of your parents in the household.

Host: s.m. gaines

Co-host Ray Gaines

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What's up with that? Volume: 2

Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!

The title speaks for itself! Today's topic is basically about, "What's good for the goose is also good for the gander!"

To share your story or for inquiries email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com

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We always hear about relationships where women are the side piece, but no one talks about the men who are in that situation.

One of our listeners sent us a love note to ask us our thoughts on the topic. Stay tuned! This is an EOT. Equal Opportunity Thotting episode.

What's up with that? Volume: 1

Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!

Today's topic is about men who do not know how to connect with women. Why are women blamed for men's mistakes and problems? Dude stop blaming us!

No one wants a broken heart, but sometimes it happens. Don't worry my friends. We got you! Soon your ex will be yesterday's news!

Host: s. m. gaines

Sandra Carr, Owner of Patty Baby Cakes, joins us to give some important business tips about starting your own bakery. 

Patty Baby Cakes is a local home-based specialty and custom cakes builder based in Brooklyn, NY. 

Her Motto is "No order is too small!"

To order your specialty cakes, you may reach Sandra on her Patty Baby Cakes business page on Facebook.

February is black history month, and we will be celebrating the achievements of black business owners and entrepreneurs every Friday. The theme for 2022 is “Black Health and Wellness.” I invited Entrepreneur, Health Counselor, Health Scientist Bonita Clemons to come on and help educate us about healthy eating and nutrition. I promise you; this show is jam packed with information to help you keep your family healthy and strong.

Bonita Clemons is the Executive Director of Dianne’s Call, a grassroots organization founded in 2001 with a mission to educate, enlighten and empower women and to change the ways that they live. Bonita is also the owner of Bonita Global LLC., a small, woman’s minority business with a mission to facilitate awareness, change and transformation.

In 2016, Bonita founded FarmASis, a farming community that brings women together from all walks of life, religions and backgrounds.

s.m. gaines interviews Scott Alexander Hess about his inspiration for his latest novella,

The Root of Everything and Lightning. They discuss everything from cancel culture, forbidden love and writing techniques.

If you are an aspiring author, you don't want to miss out on this mini masterclass!

Scott Alexander Hess is the author of six novels, including Skyscraper, a

Lambda Literary Award Finalist, and The Butcher’s Sons, which was

named a Kirkus Reviews Best Book of 2015. His writing has appeared

in HuffPost, Genre Magazine, The Fix, Thema Literary Review, and

elsewhere. Hess co-wrote “Tom in America,” an award-winning short

film starring Sally Kirkland and Burt Young.

He teaches fiction writing at Gotham Writers Workshop and curates Hot

Lit, an LGBTQ+ themed monthly newsletter. Originally from St. Louis,

Missouri, Hess lives in New York City with his husband.

Scott's books are available on Amazon, or you may purchase them on his website:

Our special guest, Wendell Fant, Personal Advisor, Teacher and Entrepreneur, continues the discussion with long term investments, credit card tips and Q & A from the audience and more!

Host s.m. gaines welcomes Personal Advisor, Teacher and Entrepreneur, Wendell Fant to the show to discuss finance, investments, retirement funds and life insurance. You do not want to miss this two-part episode! If you are planning for your future, tune in. Because this episode is all about Investing 101.

Are men intimidated by powerful and successful women? The full panel is back to discuss. Do men feel out ranked when their women are making bank?

Host: s.m. gaines