Vintage Dialog Radio
By s.m. gaines
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Vintage Dialog RadioMar 19, 2022
The Best of Vintage Dialog Radio Season 4
In this best of season 4, we talked about dating and relationships, being submissive to your man, side chicks and work husbands and so much more. These episodes were spicy and so was my panel. My mom even stopped by to talk about AI and the future of technology.
Season 5 coming in the Spring! See you soon!
Host: s.m.gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines - RAYZURGAME
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Part 2 - I unlocked my wife's Phone | Is she Cheating on me? | Listener calls into the show
In Part 1, One of our listeners wrote in to ask us for help. Is his wife cheating? He agreed to come on to give us an update. Did he confront his wife? Can his marriage be saved?
Host: s.m. gaines
Guests: Ray from Rayzurgame Coaching
Drew Kelly from Thug Therapy Podcast
Friend to the Show: Blades
Contact: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Why do women cheat? | These are the top 5 reasons women are unfaithful
Host: s.m. gaines
Special Guests:
Ray Gaines - Rayzurgame
Mike D - Swaggin with the OG Mike D Podcast
Patrick Smith
For inquires, email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Living single - Why bother getting married?
Topics include - Life after divorce. Why staying single is better. Love lessons. Forgiving and forgetting. Love chronicles 101.
Host: s.m. gaines
Guest: Niecy J.
For inquiries email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
I unlocked my wife's phone - Is she cheating on me?
One of our VPs wrote us a love note to ask for our help. He wants to know if his wife is cheating on him.
After asking to see his wife's phone, he just recently found out that his wife is still texting her high school ex-boyfriend. He read text messages like, "I love you’" and her response was, "I love you more!’" She claims that they never had sex and that he is recently divorced.
Let's talk about it.
1. How can he find out if they are more than just friends?
2. What can he do to stay one step ahead of her?
3. Is it normal for a married woman to say, ‘I love you’ to a male friend?
4. Lastly, he needs to know if it was ok for him to go through her phone without her permission.
You don't want to miss this hot episode! Listen until the end to hear what advice we gave to our VP.
Email - VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Guests - Ray Gaines - Rayzurgame Coaching
Drew Kelly - Thug Therapy Podcast
The Dating Game - Why Do People Play So Much?
Does body count matter?
Red Pill Men - are they dangerous?
Why do single men pursue married women?
What's the secret to bagging a man!
Attention Side Chicks - He is never ever gonna leave his wife for you!
For inquiries: vintagedialogradio@gmail.com
Host: s.m. gaines
Guests: Ray from Rayzurgame, Mrs. Tiff
Dating and Relationships - Why is it so complicated?
Today's topics are bananas! Conversations with Cousins. My fam came on to hold your girl down! You don't want to miss this discussion!
- Why do some women prefer a one-minute man?
- Red pill vs Manosphere.
- Who should pay for the date?
- Bedroom Tips for men
- Interracial Dating
- Do Black women know how to take care of their men? What????
Host: s.m. gaines
Guests: Ray from Rayzurgame Coaching
Cousin Niecy
Welcome to Vintage Dialog Radio, featuring Host, s.m. gaines - Classy Conversations with Friends. Let's get into it!
Welcome! ~ s.m. gaines
What about your friends? | The top 12 reasons your friend dumped you.
Your BFF ghosted you. Here's why!
Host: s.m. gaines
For inquiries email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Workout Smarter | Exercise Tips | Featuring PMT Fitness
Perry Taylor, CEO of PMT Fitness, joins us to discuss his inspiration for starting his company, workout tips and more.
PMT Fitness: TikTok
Perry Taylor: IG For inquiries, email: pmtfitness@gmail.com
Frantz Pierre: IG
Dray Laborde: IG
Host: s.m. gaines
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
My Woman is not SUBMISSIVE. What Should I do? | My Boyfriend is Jealous of my Best Friend. Which One should I DUMP?
Part 1: How to make your woman submit.
Part 2: My Boyfriend is Jealous of my Male Best Friend. Which one should I dump?
On today’s episode, we have two Love Notes from the audience.
One listener wants to know what he needs to do to make his girlfriend submit to him.
The second listener’s boyfriend is not feeling her male BFF of 20 years. Should she dump the boyfriend or the friend?
Host: s.m.gaines: smgaines.com
Co-host Ray Gaines: RAZURGAME
Guest: Mike D. from the Swagging with the OG Mike D. Podcast
Erika Lewis: Owner, Heal Thyself Counseling Heal-thyselfcounselingservices.com
Special Guest: Pat Smith
For inquiries: Email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
The Grieving Process: How to Overcome the Pain and loss of Losing a Loved One.
At some point in our lifetime, we will all experience losing someone that we care about.
Today's episode is a raw and uncut conversation with Co-Host Ray Gaines as he discusses the death of his mother and how group therapy saved his life.
Forensic Therapist, Drew Kelly, returns to discuss the 5 stages of grief and how to cope with feelings of loss.
We hope this episode will give you some support and help you with the pain you may be going through now.
Host: s.m. gaines
Email: VintageDialogRadio@Gmail.com
Women and Diversity in Tech - Is AI Taking Our Jobs?
Our special guest is Computer software professional and field engineer Margaret Gaines. We talk about diversity in the tech industry.
Are IT jobs threatened by Artificial Intelligence?
What are some of the challenges for women in technology?
Do you need a college degree to enter the industry or is a certification enough to get your foot in the door?
Advice about career changes into technology and more! You don't want to miss this episode.
Host: s.m. gaines
For inquiries of is you want to share your story email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
The Best of Vintage Dialog Radio Season 3
The Best of Season 3 is all about relationships and dating. We even had a few love notes sent into the show. The guest panels held nothing back in season 3.
Make sure to tune into the premier of Season 4 for special Black history month episodes!
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines
For inquiries, email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Be sure to subscribe! xo
The Best of Vintage Dialog Radio Season 2
Season 2 was all about making that money, generational wealth, authors, and entrepreneurs.
We had four episodes celebrating Black History Month, where we showcased small businesses.
Be sure to tune in again next week for the best of Season 3: Relationships and Dating. Cause Bayyyyybeeee, it's gonna be SPICY!
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-host: Ray Gaines
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Can men say NO to sex?
Men have standards too. Are they getting a bad Rap when it comes to sex?
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Simple Dating APP Tips for MEN
If you use Bumble, then this episode is for you! Dating app tips and more!
Host: s.m.gaines
Co-Host: Ray
For email inquiries: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Why Do Women Lie?
Why do women lie to men in the (Bedroom) Isn't easier to be truthful?
Host: s.m. gaines
Co:Host: Ray Gaines
Guest: Tiffany M.
For email inquiries VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Trust Issues | Are you talking too much?
Fellas. Don't kiss and tell. Why you gotta run and tell them that you're smashing! Your homie is waiting for you to slip up.
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-host: Ray Gaines
Guest: Tiffany M.
For inquires email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
His EX Wants a Threesome! Should he say NO? | Lovers and Friends Edition
What would you do if your ex wanted to get back with you so that she could share you with her friends?
The conversation quickly goes left when we talked about lovers and friends in this episode.
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines
Special Guest: Tiffany M.
For inquiries email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Dating Problems Smash or Dash!
Are you lowering your standards if you date someone with horrible hygiene? Would you Smash or Pass? All the single people are MARRIED! You gotta take what you can get.
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Fix Your Credit and RAISE your Score ASAP!
Tune in to find out how to repair and build your credit.
With special guest Vanessa Simon, Consultant of Credibility Services
What is the difference in the Three Credit Bureaus? Can you buy a house with a 580-credit score?
Can you purchase a home with a bankruptcy? Raise your score ASAP!
How do you play the "Collections Game" with those pesky creditors?
We cover these topics and much more!
Host s.m. gaines for inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Co-Host: Ray Gaines: IG
Vanessa Simon's Contact Information: Phone: 704-690-4383
Dating in 2022: Relationships
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Host: s.m. gaines
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Co-host: Ray Gaines
Friend to the show: Tiffany M.
Special guest: Dee Miller, entrepreneur, owner of
Illustrious Rides INC IG: ILLRIDESNYC
Polyamorous Relationships. Is it a passing trend or here to stay?
In this next episode of What's up with that? We have a short discussion about Polyamorous relationships. Are you ready?
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Moving Day Chronicles! How I got scammed on moving day!
Host: s.m. gaines: For inquiries email: vintagedialogradio@gmail.com
Co-Host Ray Gaines: IG
Tips: www.moving.com/tips/moving-scams/
Dating Over 50. Challenges and Red Flags to Look out for.
Dating after a divorce or separation can be challenging. It's not easy dating over 50 because there are slim pickings out there; especially for women over 50. And when older women date younger men, they are labeled as Cougars! In this episode, we have a small panel to discuss,
"It's ok to be picky if you are dating over 50."
Host: s.m. gaines For inquiries email: vintagedialogradio@gmail.com
Co-host: Ray Gaines IG:
Special Guest: Vanessa S.
7 Things You Absolutely Must Know Before Dating A Younger Man
Women’s Health Magazine, Alyssa Girdwain
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a28424763/dating-a-younger-man-advice/
What Do Men REALLY think about THREESOMES?!
An audience member wrote in to ask Ray to spill the tea! Tune in to find out what his answer is! Let's talk about it!
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Would you date a guy in a hooptie? Or are women still impressed with men who have NICE cars?
What's up with that Volume: 8
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic: Would you date a guy in a hooptie? He could have a fat bank account. Someone with a nice car can be broke AF! let's talk about it!
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Would you sleep with a PERFECT 10 if you knew that person was a STALKER?
What's up with That? Vol: 7 That potential BOO is FINE AF. How much are you willing to risk for one night?!
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic: Would you sleep with a PERFECT 10 if you knew that person was a STALKER? Let's talk about it.
For inquires: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Are you a Mister One Pump? Let's Talk about it!
What's up with that? Vol 6 *Warning. This episode is explicit and contains content for mature audiences.
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic: Ladies, would you dump your significant other if he was a 1-minute man?
Or would you hang in there because you really care about him?
For inquiries email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Bloopers - Vol: 5
Bonus Edition. Just a little fun to make light of things! Remember, making mistakes is part of the growing process.
The key to success is to make mistakes quickly, and recovering quickly, and keep moving forward.
- Vintage Dialog Radio Team
Should you be WORRIED if all of a SUDDEN, your SIGNIFICANT other is too FREAKY in the BEDROOM?
What's up with that? Volume: 5
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic: Should you be worried is all of a sudden, your significant other is too FREAKY? Where did they learn those new skills?
For inquiries or to share your story email VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
What would you do if "Nature Calls" on your FIRST date with a cutie?
What's up with that? Volume: 4
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic: What would you do if you had to do number TWO on your FIRST date? I say dip out to the gas station and come back.
Ray said that he would NOT go through that and just go. What would you do?
For inquiries email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Is Facebook a dating APP now? Stay outta my INBOX!
What's up with that Vol 3: Facebook is not Bumble or Tinder so why are people violating the inbox? Stay outta there!
On today's episode we discuss - Is Facebook a dating APP now? Stay outta my INBOX!
How Do women REALLY feel about those unsolicited d*** pics?
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Ray's IG:
How do absent parents impact their children's well-being?
We discuss the long-term impact of growing up without one or both of your parents in the household.
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-host Ray Gaines
Ray's IG:
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Source:
15 Negative Ways Kids from Broken Homes Get Affected (babygaga.com)
Why are WOMEN labeled the "H" word and MEN always get a pass?
What's up with that? Volume: 2
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
The title speaks for itself! Today's topic is basically about, "What's good for the goose is also good for the gander!"
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What happens when the MAN is the SIDE-PIECE? Equal opportunity Thotting!
We always hear about relationships where women are the side piece, but no one talks about the men who are in that situation.
One of our listeners sent us a love note to ask us our thoughts on the topic. Stay tuned! This is an EOT. Equal Opportunity Thotting episode.
For inquiries or to tell your story, email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Ray's IG
Not ALL men are NARCISSISTS, but most of them are WOUNDED!
What's up with that? Volume: 1
Welcome to our new lighthearted series, What's up with that? We talk about any and everything. No topic is too taboo!
Today's topic is about men who do not know how to connect with women. Why are women blamed for men's mistakes and problems? Dude stop blaming us!
Send your "What's up with that?" topic suggestions to VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Ray's IG: Tantrawindycity
What's the easiest way to get over your ex?
No one wants a broken heart, but sometimes it happens. Don't worry my friends. We got you! Soon your ex will be yesterday's news!
Host: s. m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines IG: tantrawindycity
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Black in the Military - A Conversation
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Business Tips with Sandra Carr, Entrepreneur and Owner of Patty Baby Cakes
Sandra Carr, Owner of Patty Baby Cakes, joins us to give some important business tips about starting your own bakery.
Patty Baby Cakes is a local home-based specialty and custom cakes builder based in Brooklyn, NY.
Her Motto is "No order is too small!"
To order your specialty cakes, you may reach Sandra on her Patty Baby Cakes business page on Facebook.
https://www.facebook.com/pattybabycakes
Or her IG Page:
Sandra Carr (@pattybabycakes1)
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Estate Planning - Why Making a Will is Not Enough Part 02
In Part 2, Family Wealth Advisor Audwin Levasseur, J.D. continues the conversation about Estate Planning and living benefits.
We talk about how life insurance can be a very useful asset vehicle in the US that grows tax deferred while making money from it, tax free.
We cover LIRP – Life Insurance Retirement Plan. You don't have to be a millionaire to plan your estate, find out how in part 2 of this very important discussion!
To contact Audwin as an advisor and to find out more information about your financial needs:
Website: www.axialfamilyadvisors.com
Email: Audwin@axialfamilyadvisors.com
Website: www.assetprotectionpros.com
For inquiries or to tell your story email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Estate Planning - Why Making a Will is Not Enough Part 01
Family Wealth Advisor Audwin Levasseur, J.D. breaks down everything that you need to know about Estate Planning. What is Estate Planning? Why is Estate Planning almost nonexistent in African American households? What are some of the most important things we should be doing to make sure our future generations are taken care of? We cover these topics and more!
To contact Audwin as an advisor and to find out more information about your financial needs:
Website: www.axialfamilyadvisors.com
Email: Audwin@axialfamilyadvisors.com
Website: www.assetprotectionpros.com
For inquiries or to tell your story email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Health and Wellness 101 with Entrepreneur and Health Scientist Bonita Clemons
February is black history month, and we will be celebrating the achievements of black business owners and entrepreneurs every Friday. The theme for 2022 is “Black Health and Wellness.” I invited Entrepreneur, Health Counselor, Health Scientist Bonita Clemons to come on and help educate us about healthy eating and nutrition. I promise you; this show is jam packed with information to help you keep your family healthy and strong.
Bonita Clemons is the Executive Director of Dianne’s Call, a grassroots organization founded in 2001 with a mission to educate, enlighten and empower women and to change the ways that they live. Bonita is also the owner of Bonita Global LLC., a small, woman’s minority business with a mission to facilitate awareness, change and transformation.
In 2016, Bonita founded FarmASis, a farming community that brings women together from all walks of life, religions and backgrounds.
To contact Bonita Clemons, visit her website: Diannescall.org
Host: s. m. gaines
For inquiries or to share your story email us at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
The Root of Everything & Lightning | Interview with Author Scott Alexander Hess
s.m. gaines interviews Scott Alexander Hess about his inspiration for his latest novella,
The Root of Everything and Lightning. They discuss everything from cancel culture, forbidden love and writing techniques.
If you are an aspiring author, you don't want to miss out on this mini masterclass!
Scott Alexander Hess is the author of six novels, including Skyscraper, a
Lambda Literary Award Finalist, and The Butcher’s Sons, which was
named a Kirkus Reviews Best Book of 2015. His writing has appeared
in HuffPost, Genre Magazine, The Fix, Thema Literary Review, and
elsewhere. Hess co-wrote “Tom in America,” an award-winning short
film starring Sally Kirkland and Burt Young.
He teaches fiction writing at Gotham Writers Workshop and curates Hot
Lit, an LGBTQ+ themed monthly newsletter. Originally from St. Louis,
Missouri, Hess lives in New York City with his husband.
Scott's books are available on Amazon, or you may purchase them on his website:
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Investing 101 Part Two - It's All About the Benjamins Baby!
Our special guest, Wendell Fant, Personal Advisor, Teacher and Entrepreneur, continues the discussion with long term investments, credit card tips and Q & A from the audience and more!
If you would like to share your story or need advice, send us a love note. Email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
For a consultation with Wendell, Email: WendellFant@hotmail.com
Investing 101: It’s All About the Benjamins
Host s.m. gaines welcomes Personal Advisor, Teacher and Entrepreneur, Wendell Fant to the show to discuss finance, investments, retirement funds and life insurance. You do not want to miss this two-part episode! If you are planning for your future, tune in. Because this episode is all about Investing 101.
If you would like to share your story or need advice, send us a love note. Email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
For a consultation with Wendell, Email: WendellFant@hotmail.com
The Best of Vintage Dialog Radio Season 1
In this episode, I highlight some of the greatest moments from season one. So, if you haven’t had the chance to listen to the show, this is a great time for you to catch up on all of the awesome episodes that you may have missed! I want to give a special thank you to everyone who has been supporting the podcast! Thank you to the awesome panel that participated in some really hot topics! I look forward to giving you more great content in 2022. Stay well and stay safe! ~ Love you all! s.m. gaines
If you are interested in telling your story, or have a topic that you want to discuss, email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Who Runs the World?
Are men intimidated by powerful and successful women? The full panel is back to discuss. Do men feel out ranked when their women are making bank?
Host: s.m. gaines
Email: VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Co-host: Ray Gaines, Motivational Speaker and Coach
Email: Raylgaines@gmail.com
Guest Panel
Erika Lewis, LCPC, LMHC Owner and Clinical Therapist, Heal Thyself Counseling LLC
Website for journals and services is heal-thyselfcounselingservices.com
Drew Kelly, Forensic Therapist, Host Thug Therapy Podcast
Podcast Link https://anchor.fm/drewthugtherapist
Tiffany Robinson, Friend to the show
https://medium.com/authority-magazine/power-women-sheila-murphy-of-focus-forward-consulting-on-how-to-successfully-navigate-work-love-ceee8fb15611
Just a Friend
Host: s.m. gaines
Co-Host: Ray Gaines, Relationship Coach and Motivational Speaker
Guest: Tiffany Robinson
Guest Nicole Moss
Booking info for Ray Gaines Raylgaines@gmail.com
If you are ready to share your story or have an inquiry send us a Love Note at VintageDialogRadio@gmail.com
Sources: Essence When it's Okay to Date A Friends Ex - Essence
Insider When It's Not Ok to Date Your Friend's Ex (insider.com)