When We Curhat
By Clar & Nab
When We CurhatAug 22, 2020
Pick up the hint.
Heads up, this one is a full on vent. We rant about times when people are just too oblivious and can’t seem to pick up our hints.
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Thinking, on steroids.
Two overthinkers talking about overthinking.
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Are we too nice?
Also known as being people pleasers. We talk about being “too nice” (re: people pleaser), and discuss how to unlearn that need to be liked. Really, not everyone has to like you!
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Getting pissed off.
We talk about how we deal with one of the “thorniest” emotions: anger. But mind you, we are both in the passive aggressive camp. We dissect that emotion and somehow come up with some practical tips on how we would deal with it.
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When we catch feelings.
How do you express and experience love? Some gestures make you more likely to develop or catch feelings. Come listen to us attempting to decode the different Love Languages. (P.S. Future dates, please refer back to this episode).
What’s your Love Language? Take the quiz! https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
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(How to) quit denying your emotions.
Feelings aren’t icky (anymore). Talking about our love story (podcast anniversary) got us rambling about some pragmatic strategies when dealing with emotions. This includes unlearning some unhealthy emotional stigma. One thing for sure, we talk about emotions a lot.
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Do you talk to yourself?
We OBVIOUSLY do. It’s a Bonus Episode! Our FIRST EVER recording (please excuse the sound quality, this was an impromptu iPhone recording). This is the cornerstone of our entire podcast, asking: “How do I feel? Why do I feel like this? What can I do to not make myself feel like this?”
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Valentine’s Day: A Debate
Half of us in this episode are realists, and the other half are romantics. Guess which one of us appreciates and loves the idea of Valentine's Day, and which one is being super cynical about anything cute? We also discuss the pressure to NOT be single, and some pro-tip on how to be happily single. Two of us are quite the experts here.
This is Part 2 of our Valentine’s crossover special with Baper Clubhouse! Go listen to Part 1: Insecurities & Dating on Baper Clubhouse!
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We miss planes.
We reminisce on an activity that is impossible to do during the pandemic: Traveling. Also, a preparation for when traveling becomes a thing again. We accidentally found out that our compatibility goes beyond being podcast co-hosts.
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How to "sibling"
In this episode, we both will share with you the duties and obligations on how to be the best sister in the world. Just kidding. To all “only child” out there, if you are curious about sibling dynamics, siblight fights, and how sibling relationships transform, have a listen.
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2020: A Recap
This wouldn’t be an end (and beginning) of the year episode without an annual reflection.
In this episode we reflect and share highlights from our 2020; from “breaking up with a boss” to being a “plant mother”, from mental health to BTS, but most importantly, we reflect on the birth of this podcast and how it has affected us.
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Have fun, but don’t be stupid.
A hopeful and cynical take on starting relationships. We talk about mindsets. We talk about safeguards. We curhat about navigating uncertainties, and managing expectations.
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Why are relationships so scary?
We know it’s not supposed to be. Here we talk about why it's so scary by confronting our attachment styles. What’s your attachment style? Find out here: https://quiz.attachmentproject.com
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Swipe, swipe, swipe. Pt. II
This two-part episode is a story about meeting people online, and by online we mean – you know – dating app. This episode is a special one because we will be hearing from a very special friend of ours, a dating app expert, and a fun guy looking for love.
In Part II, we spilled all the tea about the dates that we went on. From ideal dates to deal breakers. Do check out Part I where we dissected our dating app stories.
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Swipe, swipe, swipe. Pt. I
This two-part episode is a story about meeting people online, and by online we mean – you know – dating app. This episode is a special one because we will be hearing from a very special friend of ours, he is a dating app expert, and a fun guy looking for love.
In part I we talk about the app experience, from how we text, how we stalk (oops we mean, conduct due diligence), and how we swipe. Part II is about in-person dating experience.
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Best of both worlds.
Are you loud and obnoxious? Or quiet and conscientious? Does your mouth move before your brain or do you overthink to the point of not saying anything? Do you thrive in a crowded room or does it make you want to throw up? It’s not a binary but this episode explores which ends of the spectrum we’re at. Spoiler alert: Clar and Nab are on opposite ends.
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Remember when you were 5?
They say you don’t really change since you were a kid. From just being weird in general to dunking oreo in water, we discuss how true it is for us. This episode is a crispy one.
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Confidence, it’s hard.
But we’re trying. Insecurity comes and goes, which is what we’re rambling about in this episode.
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Dear Bad Texter
A conversation between a bad texter and a decent texter.
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Crushes (and dealing with it).
How we flirt and how we don’t. Apparently, we crush on people differently. But we agree on one thing: It can be fun and/or annoying.
Emotions, out loud.
Is talking about your feelings a “white” thing? Some things we cover in this episode: Swallowing your feelings. Feeling misunderstood and invalidated. Being vulnerable. Bonus advice on how to listen better towards the end.
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Pre-curhat.
“Why do we even think it's a good idea to record our “curhat”?”