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Yep. Yep. I said It!

Yep. Yep. I said It!

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Yep, Yep, I said It is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds. Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; Yep, Yep, I said It will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always to say.
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Wrap up of 2020... S1E11

Yep. Yep. I said It!Jan 08, 2021

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You’re not a CEO, take a salary! ...S2 E4

You’re not a CEO, take a salary! ...S2 E4


#YepYepISaidIt...Some of you are out here trying to do #BossLife and you haven’t yet learnt what it takes to be a boss, “oh no she didn’t”, Oh Yes We Did! In this episode we explore the ways we have been made to feel shameful because you have admitted to entrepreneurs that we like our 9-5. Join Miss Luminary and RubySuze as they discuss the some of the myths that come with entrepreneurship, why they feel that certain groups of entrepreneurs need to have the humility and the importance of lessons that can only be learnt when you are an employee.

Mar 19, 202157:03
I’m 2nd generation but I feel 1st generation pressure pt. 2...S2E3

I’m 2nd generation but I feel 1st generation pressure pt. 2...S2E3

In part 2, we continue discussions with our friends, Crowning Podcast, on the impact of colonisation and segregation. Join Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze as they are enlightened on how federal and state law operates, the federal loan offered to 1st time home buyers (the fine print that comes with it) and ultimately the contrast between the British and American immigrant experiences.

Mar 12, 202155:28
I don’t wanna talk about death...S2E1

I don’t wanna talk about death...S2E1

**FEATURE LENGTH EPISODE**

Today we welcome our first ever guest Temi aka Mr Faith & Finance to have a conversation about money, life insurance and all the nervousness in between when we think about dying and leaving our love ones behind. Join Mr Faith & Finance, Miss Luminary and RubySuze as they have an open and honest conversation about the realities of what happens when death hits and why it is important and necessary to cover your family by taking out a life insurance policy. You can contact Mr Faith & Finance via @mrfaithandfinance or email us at yepyepisaidit@gmail.com and we can put you in touch.

Feb 26, 202153:37
Breaking up with friends is worse than breaking up with your partner episode pt. 2...S1E16

Breaking up with friends is worse than breaking up with your partner episode pt. 2...S1E16

Part 2 

**From the Archive**

The Hero complex, when you are raised in a particular way, it will impact how you form relationships. In this episode, we discuss how you can teach people to treat you based on how you perceive yourself; if you see yourself as a fixer, you pass this on to your friend but it can mean that you don’t get your needs met. In part 2, RubySuze and Miss Luminary open up about the pain of being in relationships with unmet needs and how relationships can break when this is challenged and the person in “deficit”realises they have value. When you know who you are, it is important to have people around you who accept all of you, which means some friendships may be a loss that you may have to accept. 

Feb 05, 202132:53
Breaking up with friends is worse than breaking up with your partner episode pt. 1...S1E15

Breaking up with friends is worse than breaking up with your partner episode pt. 1...S1E15


Part 1
**From the Archive**
This is an oldie but goodie, we talk about how loss of friendships can trigger grief because of the way we have built memories of friendships. The littlest thing be it a song, smell even taste can trigger our memory of a friendship and can be quite traumatic at times. RubySuze and Miss Luminary explore how friendships are formed and the fact that every friendship should serve the both parties and not just one side. However, it can often be tricky as people pick their friendships and it’s not easy to swallow when they break.
Feb 03, 202130:36
I don’t like being a woman…S1E14

I don’t like being a woman…S1E14

#yepyepIsaidit! In a man’s world it can be hard to identify the positives of being a woman, let’s face it we are shamed for just about everything as women that our male counterparts are applauded for. Join Miss Luminary and RubySuze as they discuss the lows AND highs of womanhood. From periods and pregnancy to versatility in fashion and emotions they will have laughing and cringing at the heights and plights of womanhood.
Jan 29, 202138:46
Being friends with females is long...S1E13

Being friends with females is long...S1E13

**From our Archives** We love our sisters, we do...honestly we do! But let’s admit it, at times it can be a real struggle to interact with females. The unsaid rules, the hormones, the hierarchy, that one “best friend”, your clique... the complexities of female friendships are multilayered. Heart motive can often get lost in translation. In this episode. Ruby suze and Miss Luminary discuss why at times the story we believe isn’t always true and the challenges this can pose to relationships. They discuss the importance of communication, the necessity of grace, the seasonality of friendship and the art of letting of friendships come & go. 
Jan 22, 202147:37
Help I’m having a midlife crisis! - but I’m not midlife...S1E12

Help I’m having a midlife crisis! - but I’m not midlife...S1E12

**From the Archive**

One of our very first recorded episodes! Hence all the explanations/introductions. In this episode, we talk about why midlife crises seem to happening at younger ages and why (though are not midlife) we have experienced a midlife crisis. In this episode Miss Luminary and RubySuze discuss the definition of midlife, the need society has to compare themselves to someone else and why there is pressure on young people to become “financially free”.
Jan 15, 202131:35
Wrap up of 2020... S1E11

Wrap up of 2020... S1E11

**FEATURE LENGTH EPISODE!!!**

We know we have dropped off! We are sorry! We love you and thank you to you for being our faithful listeners. In our Wrap 2020 episode we take a look at our highlights of the year, we know 2020 was hard but as we reflect we hope to give you points of encouragement. In this feature length episode, join Miss Luminary and RubySuze on the journey of 2020, the lessons they’ve learned and how they plan on living their life on the lessons learnt from this year.

Jan 08, 202159:28
Just because I'm loud doesn't mean I want attention...S1 E10

Just because I'm loud doesn't mean I want attention...S1 E10

This topic really tests the assumptions that loud people enjoying being the centre of attention. We talk about this perception that loudness equals confidence, is it possible to be shy and loud - 1000000%. A topic close to Miss Luminary’s heart, together with RubySuze, she discusses the idea that you can be extrovert AND anxious. They talk about how being loud can be perceived and the associations made with loudness and why at times that trait is more often weaponised rather than being embraced in a person.
Dec 14, 202039:28
No degree not for me...S1E9

No degree not for me...S1E9

#Yepyepisaidit! In this episode we explore why ambition is important in a relationship and what it means to seek our ambition in a partner. Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze talk about seeking ambition in a partner, why men can often be intimidated by women who have ambition and if it is indeed right for a woman to hide parts of herself for the man to feel better. 

Dec 04, 202044:12
I praise God with that mouth...S1E8

I praise God with that mouth...S1E8

Can you be a mature Christian and “swear”? #YepyepIsaidit. In this episode we dare to open up the uncomfortable conversation about swearing and being a Christian. Join Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary as they talk about  “swearing”, what are swear words and what does the bible mean when it says do not curse.

Nov 28, 202045:52
I'm not expired at 30...S1E7

I'm not expired at 30...S1E7

We talk about how #turning30 doesn’t mean life stops! It’s great to have all these goals and ambition but there is joy in accomplishing things at older ages. Join Miss Luminary and RubySuze as they discuss why it seems like there aren’t opportunities for people over 30 and why there needs to be space for more discussions with people who are ahead of you in life.

Nov 20, 202048:04
I'm bringing nothing to the table but my knife and fork!...S1E6

I'm bringing nothing to the table but my knife and fork!...S1E6

It's #Talkmoney  week, this week and in our truest style and most regular fashion we talk about money and the pressures there are on single people, over 30 , to come into a relationship financially put together. Join Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze as they discuss what it means as a woman to come to the table with a #house, #savings & #investments and why it's not all about bringing something to the table, it's about growing and building together as a couple.  

Nov 13, 202044:31
Big breast aren't best...S1E5

Big breast aren't best...S1E5

Big breast aren’t best #YepyepIsaidit... we talk about the expectation of being well endowed as a female against the reality of what it’s like be big chested. Hear from RubySuze and Miss Luminary about their struggles with being big breasted and why something that a lot of women will go out of their way to pay, for can weigh them down both physically and mentally.

Nov 06, 202039:33
I am the black sheep pt. 2...S1E4

I am the black sheep pt. 2...S1E4

In #BlackHistoryMonth we talk about  the conscious decisions we’ve made in our every day lives to ensure we aren’t labelled as the “black sheep”; why there needs to be more room for diversity within all communities and how self-acceptance is the key to not succumbing to the stigma of the “black sheep” label. In part 2 in times where solidarity is being called upon within the black community, hear both Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary talk about why they feel difference of opinion or thought shouldn’t be a reason for segregation within in any community; family, race or faith and why being the black sheep may not have been as big of a problem as we might think.

Oct 30, 202030:10
I am the black sheep pt. 1...S1E3

I am the black sheep pt. 1...S1E3

In #BlackHistoryMonth, we wanted to talk about the term “black sheep” and the many ways in which we have been labelled or felt like the black sheep even in and amongst our own communities and networks. In part 1 hear from Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze detail why they would rather gain weight than lose their sex organs and talk about their various experiences of being labelled “black sheep”.

Oct 23, 202022:60
Jesus isn’t Bae...S1E2

Jesus isn’t Bae...S1E2

Jesus isn’t Bae....Yep we went there! We dared to say it! We discuss in this episode why Jesus can’t be Bae and how He is many other things except this. Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary dive deep into where this language originated from and, why in their opinion, this phrase can be (has been!) used to stop you dealing with some of those issues that you are too scared to confront and uncover....
Oct 16, 202033:49
I used Lockdown to sleep... S1E1

I used Lockdown to sleep... S1E1

I used lockdown to sleep!  In this episode, RubySuze and Miss Luminary explore their frustration at the notion that lockdown should be used to upskill or establish a multimillion-pound idea.  They confess how they used lockdown and what they think we should all be using lockdown for. This episode also opens with a pretty racey 'would you rather'!




'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. Follow your hosts on instagram: @missluminary, @rubysuzecreates HOSTS: MISS LUMINARY @miss_luminary RUBY SUZE - @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

Oct 09, 202036:00
We Are Back!!

We Are Back!!

We Are Back!! After a looong and 'unprecedented' break away. Can't wait to share what we have been up to in the lockdown with you. 

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. Follow your hosts on instagram: @missluminary, @rubysuzecreates HOSTS: MISS LUMINARY @miss_luminary RUBY SUZE - @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

Oct 02, 202003:15
Beyonce is NOT my Role Model - Episode 4

Beyonce is NOT my Role Model - Episode 4

Beyonce is NOT my Role Model 

Yep! Yep! We went there. We dared to speak about Beyonce and how the world seems to set her as a standard for beauty and accomplishment for black women. Don't get us wrong - we appreciate her gifting, her talent, her hustle - afterall, she provided the anthem for single women world wide!  But should that be the first and main reference for black womanhood?!

Join Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze as they candidly share about their own struggles with social media envy and discover how the simple decision to unfollow people has lead to better wellbeing for them both.

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. Follow your hosts on instagram: @missluminary, @rubysuzecreates HOSTS: MISS LUMINARY @miss_luminary RUBY SUZE - @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

May 01, 202039:54
I UNFOLLOWED BECAUSE I WAS JEALOUS - Episode 3

I UNFOLLOWED BECAUSE I WAS JEALOUS - Episode 3

Have you ever unfollowed someone because you are jealous of them?  Does seeing pictures of them living their 'best life' leave you in a state about why you can't have the same? Do you find yourself longing for a caption worthy life after spending time on social media? Well..you are definitely not on your own. Join Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze as they candidly share about their own struggles with social media envy and discover how the simple decision to unfollow people has lead to better wellbeing for them both.

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. Follow your hosts on instagram: @missluminary, @rubysuzecreates HOSTS: MISS LUMINARY @miss_luminary RUBY SUZE - @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

Mar 20, 202044:12
BLACK PEOPLE DON'T WANT THERAPY: Episode 2

BLACK PEOPLE DON'T WANT THERAPY: Episode 2

BLACK PEOPLE DON'T WANT THERAPY: Episode 2 

Join Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze as they explore the reasons why many people within the black community don't access the mental health support that they need. Miss Luminary and Ruby Suze share part of the own stories about times when they have needed to access counselling in order to improve and develop their mental help. 

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. Follow your hosts on instagram: @missluminary, @rubysuzecreates HOSTS: MISS LUMINARY @miss_luminary RUBY SUZE - @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

Feb 07, 202044:37
NEW YEAR, SAME ISH - Episode 1

NEW YEAR, SAME ISH - Episode 1

NEW YEAR, SAME ISH - 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' New Year...Same Ish...Episode 1 'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; 'Yep. Yep. I said!' It will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak. In the inaugural episode of Yep, Yep, I said It, Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary share openly about how they internally roll their eyes when the new year comes along.  Does the New Year really hold the ability to bring all your dreams and desires to come to pass or is that all just wishful thinking? Find out what they think in this episode. Follow your hosts on instagram: @miss_luminary, @rubysuzecreates INSTAGRAM: YEPYEPISAIDIT EMAIL: yepyepisaidit@gmail.com

Jan 24, 202031:05
Podcast Trailer

Podcast Trailer

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' Trailer

New Year...Same Ish...Episode 1

'Yep. Yep. I said It!' is a podcast that speak about the uncomfortable and often hidden truths, we all think but daren't say. The hosts Ruby Suze and Miss Luminary are both passionate about using this podcast to create safe space for those who want to unburden themselves of the thoughts that rattle through their hearts and minds.  Be it talking about the undesirable traits of being a woman to debating whether they'd rather have permanent bad breath or body odour; Yep, Yep, I said It will have you laughing, crying and daring you to speak that thing that you've always wanted to speak.

Jan 23, 202001:24