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You Had To Be There: A D&D Storytelling Podcast

You Had To Be There: A D&D Storytelling Podcast

By Tom DeCillis

A bi-weekly D&D storytelling podcast where we sit down with RPG enthusiasts so they can share their stories. Join me while we hear countless moments about characters, campaigns, and conundrums. Everyone has a different story to tell, but they all have one thing in common, You Had To Be There. To be on the show, follow us on Twitch or wherever you get your podcasts. Then, send an email to youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com. I'd love to hear your story.
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United Paizo Workers

You Had To Be There: A D&D Storytelling PodcastNov 03, 2021

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The Everyday Superhero
Oct 05, 202254:47
Intellect Devoured
Sep 21, 202259:50
Off With His Head
Sep 07, 202248:19
Party Overboard
Aug 24, 202201:00:29
Pro Grodog
Aug 10, 202242:36
Black Rhapsody by Magic Gal Media
Aug 03, 202240:26
Confuse Ray All Day
Jul 27, 202258:24
Call Of Cthulhu One Shot Pt. 3
Jul 20, 202257:27
The Satanic Panic
Jul 13, 202201:12:28
Call Of Cthulhu One Shot Pt. 2
Jul 06, 202201:02:54
Extreme Basket Weaving
Jun 29, 202248:16
Call Of Cthulhu One Shot Pt. 1
Jun 22, 202201:26:12
Cultural Differences
Jun 15, 202255:06
All On My Gnome
Jun 01, 202253:08
He Doesn't Want To Come Back
May 18, 202249:29
First Time For Everything
May 04, 202255:22
Rock And Roll
Apr 20, 202245:36
Yo Momma
Apr 06, 202251:14
Trust No One
Mar 23, 202246:12
Silent But Deadly

Silent But Deadly

Luis Loza is a Senior Developer at Paizo and is part of the team that creates the setting for Pathfinder Lost Omens.  Despite having a bad experience as a first-time GM, Luis now is a long-time GM who runs many games in many systems.  You can check out his Pathfinder and independent work at https://www.luisloza.com/ and follow him on Twitter @donatoclassic.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy  My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Mar 09, 202246:53
Some Of You May Die

Some Of You May Die

Andrew Brown is a long-time 5th Edition D&D player who is also part of the Reliably Chaotic podcast.  Andrew has many years of experience working in all aspects of theater, ranging from crew to lighting, to acting, which ultimately led him to find a deep connection with TTRPGs.  On top of being my first DM, Andrew has a passion for chaotic and wild card characters, resulting in hilarious results.

Catch the Reliably Chaotic Podcast wherever you find podcasts!


To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy  My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Feb 23, 202245:08
Domestic Disturbance

Domestic Disturbance

Hayley Bell is part of the Party of 2 RPG Twitch channel, where she and her husband Weston take turns GM'ing an original Pathfinder adventure.  Hayley started playing TTRPGs in 2020 but quickly became obsessed with Table Top Gaming.  Now, you can see her guest appearing in games all across the community.   

Watch Party of 2 RPG live on Twitch: https://t.co/GEltwQaJwu  

Follow Hailey on Twitter: https://twitter.com/hayleym_bell  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com  

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy  My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. 

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Feb 09, 202251:41
Where's The Beef?

Where's The Beef?

Anim5 is a TTRPG and nerd culture veteran who played his first game of D&D in the late '70s.  After years of playing mostly independent Role Playing Games, he returned to D&D after 5th edition was released.  Now as a committed Dungeon Master, his players get to explore his home-brewed world, with a map that was created by everyone's favorite cold cut.  

Check out his website at www.anim5.com.

Listen to The Gutter Skypes Podcast at https://www.anim5.com/IDDFOS/TGS/index.html


To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jan 26, 202250:08
The Name Of The Game

The Name Of The Game

Dennis Rooney is a hilarious stand-up comedian and TTRPG player.  His interest in TTRPG's was peaked when he moved to Brooklyn and saw his roommates playing.  He has now played in multiple campaigns, bringing a comedic flair to all of his characters.  For Dennis, making a character all boils down to one crucial moment, the name! 

You can follow Dennis and Instagram @dennisrooney7

And check out his podcast Netflix Bookclub.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jan 12, 202246:50
Drop Dead Gorgeous

Drop Dead Gorgeous

Amanda Grace is known for her cosplay, writing, and TikTok.  Her tight-knit RPG group started off with Pathfinder in 2009, but expanded into 5th edition D&D, Warhammer, Weird West, and more!  She is currently writing a book in which the storyline is heavily based on dice rolls she and her writing partner make.  In her time playing TTRPG's, one of her favorite characters was a one-legged stripper who was so charismatic, no one could deny her requests.

You can follow Amanda Grace on TikTok @algrace656 

https://www.tiktok.com/@algrace656?

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com 

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy 

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Dec 29, 202142:27
Psychoanalysis

Psychoanalysis

When nerdiness meets psychology!  Katrina Reese is an experienced comedian, voice actor, and roleplayer.  While she is newer to the world of D&D, her time as a Larper and performer has given her great insights on why a person may play a certain type of character.    

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Dec 15, 202147:24
Careful What You Research

Careful What You Research

Colin Turzai started playing TTRPG's when he and his cousin found an AD&D box in his Grandfather's house.  Colin now runs multiple games a month using multiple different systems, incorporating some of the most ridiculous magical items as he goes.  Colin, however, learned that doing research for campaigns might just earn you a visit from some interesting Government Agents.  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Dec 01, 202153:37
Don't Tell Mom

Don't Tell Mom

Chaz Bolon has been playing D&D for nearly 13 years.  After many years of playing, he has finally taken up the role of DM.  On top of having his Barberian chased by a Revenant he had brutally killed, Chaz had to hide playing D&D from his mother for many years due to some lingering satanic panic.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Nov 17, 202152:27
United Paizo Workers

United Paizo Workers

On this special episode of You Had To Be There, I sit down with two employees of Paizo, the RPG publishing company of Pathfinder and Starfinder.  Jason Tondro is a Senior Developer and Alex Speidel is an Organized Play Coordinator at Paizo.  However, they were also part of the driving force that led Paizo to recognize the employee's desire to unionize, making Paizo the first-ever RPG publishing company to have a union.


To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Nov 03, 202156:00
Fight Your Inner Demons

Fight Your Inner Demons

*REPOST DUE TO PREVIOUS AUDIO ISSUES, my sincerest apologies*

Jay Pittman has been playing D&D for three years.  In that short time, he has become a highly creative writer, DM, and player, intertwining his past DM's campaign and his together.  However, in Jay's world, if you find yourself in the plane of death, you may be racking up some points of despair, which put exhaustion levels to shame.  You may also find that the hardest fight may take place inside a character's mind.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Oct 20, 202144:43
NPC = MVP

NPC = MVP

Aiden Mancini played his first-ever D&D session at the young age of 10.  After returning from a long hiatus, his past 3 years have been filled with a heavy blend of classic D&D and Sci-Fi-based TTRPG's.  On top of ramming a giant robot with a spaceship, Aiden's group learned that sometimes an NPC can be the party's favorite character.  Aiden can be seen as a guest on the n33fr33ks Twitch channel, https://www.twitch.tv/n33tfr33ks. To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast. The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic
Oct 06, 202143:43
Always Call Your Mother

Always Call Your Mother

Matt Reed is a member of the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.  After nearly quitting D&D after a few bad experiences, he now participates in multiple campaigns.  Matt's bread and butter in D&D are his wacky character creations, as well as his very unorthodox method of rolling stats.  Breaking the mold of the dark character backstory, his half-orc not only had a great family but always made sure to stay in contact.  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Sep 22, 202144:15
Leave It To Steve

Leave It To Steve

Megan Magee is an actress, voice actor, and improviser.  She began playing 5th edition D&D five years ago with a group of acting friends.  In her time playing in various one-shots and campaigns, she learned that a little flirting with an NPC can go a long way.  

You can follow Megan on Instagram @meganmageenyc

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Sep 08, 202145:56
Give Him A Hand

Give Him A Hand

Lexi Milford starting playing 3rd Edition D&D back in college. After playing one campaign as a player, she began taking up the role of Dungeon Master. Lexi is currently writing a pre-apocalyptic campaign that will lead her players up to a great catastrophe. As a long-time DM, she learned that some players will do whatever it takes to make a peace offering.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com  

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: 

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy  

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy  

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy  

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.  

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic



Aug 25, 202143:28
All Hands On Deck

All Hands On Deck

Adam Bokhari is a D&D enthusiast that spent years reading and researching TTRPG's before ever getting to play.  Through his dedication to the history of these games, he will incorporate aspects of different editions in his campaigns.  He also has no problem changing your subclass if you stray from your Deities' morals.   Join Adam's Discord at https://discord.gg/222kAwgUUm Follow him on social media at   https://www.instagram.com/gatheringhallgames  https://www.twitter.com/Gathering_Hall   You can find everything you'd want to know about Heliana's Guide to Monster Hunting at https://www.monsterhuntering5e.com Watch Adam play D&D every other Monday at https://www.twitch.tv/pulsarcologne   To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com  Please follow me to get updates on future episodes: IG: @tomdecilliscomedy  Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy  TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy  My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.  The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic
Aug 11, 202153:13
Undercover Boss

Undercover Boss

Jacob Cordas is a highly experienced RPG player and DM. On top of running multiple formats, he also used to create escape rooms, incorporating that in his games. However, one of his players managed to outsmart countless enemies by recreating a popular TV show.
To hire Jacob as a DM for one of your games, go to
startplaying.games/gm/jacweasel
Check out his comic book reviews at www.comicsbookcase.com/
Also, check out The Cheesy Gordita Bunch Podcast: my.bio/cheesygorditabunchpod
To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com
Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:
IG: @tomdecilliscomedy
Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy
TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy
My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.
The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry. soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic
Jul 28, 202149:42
Baby On Board

Baby On Board

Bella Sales is a D&D 5th edition player who participates in multiple homebrewed campaigns.  On top of running a badass battle royale for her group, her Phoenix Druid ended up with a rich Dad, and not one, but two babies.  


To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jul 14, 202148:52
Don't Hate, Hydrate

Don't Hate, Hydrate

Bryan Scharf is the Dungeon Master for The Reliably Chaotic Podcast.  Not only did D&D help him through one of the toughest times in his life, but it also led him to be an incredible DM and world builder.  He also learned that sometimes a seemingly average magical item can really turn the tides on a campaign.  Please follow him on Twitter @ReliableDM  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jun 30, 202143:07
An Absolute Lemon

An Absolute Lemon

Matt Hogan is a D&D 5th edition player with an affinity for Warlocks and dangerous homebrews.  On top of his difficult encounters and puzzles, you might just find a misspelled scroll, resulting in hilarious outcomes.  Be sure to join his Facebook group, D&D - Monsters and More.

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jun 16, 202145:54
Time's Up

Time's Up

Andrew J. Beck is an actor and 5th Edition D&D player.  He uses his skills as an actor to create the wackiest and out-of-the-box characters.  His D&D lesson to all, don't mess with the clock.  

Follow him on Instagram: @ajbeckoning  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Jun 02, 202146:43
No Mid Campaign Breakups

No Mid Campaign Breakups

Jay Muhlithaler is a D&D veteran who has been playing since 1998.  On top of a wealth of knowledge, he also had to kill multiple PCs due to real-life breakups. 

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

May 19, 202151:25
The Best Tasting Homebrew

The Best Tasting Homebrew

*I apologize for the few audio issues*

Jack Michael is an extremely creative homebrewer who created a world filled with food-based characters and conundrums.  Taking his players through a delicious taste of mystery and wonder.  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

May 13, 202151:58
Heat Metal = Total Destruction

Heat Metal = Total Destruction

Nicole Summers is part of the D&D campaign podcast Reliably Chaotic.  Through her love of casters, she has unlocked the true power of the heat metal spell.  

To be a guest on the show: Email me at youhadtobetheredndpodcast@gmail.com

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

Twitter: @TDeCilliscomedy

TikTok: @tomdecilliscomedy

My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

May 05, 202149:12
He Didn't Die, But He Wishes He Did

He Didn't Die, But He Wishes He Did

Kenneth Blaney is an RPG player that started with a D&D first edition nightmare which inevitably led him to be a diehard Pathfinder and Pathfinder 2 player.  Listen to how his character has one of the worst days in RPG history.  

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

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My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Apr 28, 202147:47
16 Nat 1's In a Row

16 Nat 1's In a Row

I sit down with Kyle Reilly-Joseph.  He is a tried and true Fifth Edition D&D player with an unorthodox DMing style.  He also may very well hold the world record for most consecutive Nat 1's.  Watch Kyle stream on Twitch at twitch.tv/gagglegoon.

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

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My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Apr 21, 202148:25
I'm Going To BULLRUSHEM

I'm Going To BULLRUSHEM

Join me as I talk with Peter Zepf.  He is an avid D&D and Pathfinder 2 player who shared his stories on how he started, the characters he made, and some campaigns he ran.

Please follow me to get updates on future episodes:

IG: @tomdecilliscomedy

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My logo was created by Nicole Summers from the Reliably Chaotic Podcast.

The music for my intro was created by Michael James Mcgarry.  https://soundcloud.com/itsmjmusic

Apr 14, 202148:47