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By Cyn Yarinakis
What Really Matterz is a platform built to explore, entertain, educate and inspire! So, when we say we EXPLORE, we really do explore the REAL meaning of LIFE!! But when we say EDUCATE we mean, being ENLIGHTENED from our PROFESSIONAL guest speakers! Our goal and mission is to ensure that our audience no matter what walk of life are enriched with wholesome knowledge. But we also want you to be ENTERTAINED because we understand there is no FUN in being serious all the time!! And, last but not least we want you to feel INSPIRED through these conversations and find your true PURPOSE IN LIFE!
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Tapping for stress management! How it has helped me stay calm when feeling anxious


Tapping for stress management! How it has helped me stay calm when feeling anxious


Cutting the cord: What you need to do before jumping over and become your own boss!
You know, every successful person or entrepreneur would talk about why it's so important to do whats meaning and makes you happy in life! But you don't hear them tell you the ugly side of things or of the process to become your own boss! But I hope this conversation today does just that! Walks you through how to navigate through this hard parts and how you can stay true to your vision!
March 11, 2022
Tapping for stress management! How it has helped me stay calm when feeling anxious
In this episode, I will be talking about this NEW thing call TAPPING! I just found out about it and I would say it's become my best friend as my number one stress reliever method!! So, am try and share how Tapping has helped me with stress management and hopefully it helps you too!
March 11, 2022
Are you that friend your friends call when they are BORED?
In this short episode, I want to encourage you to ask yourself, how do those people you consider friends really feel about your VALUE in their lives as a friend. Don't be disappointed coz it might sting a little putting this into perspective and feeling the reality of the matter. But the good news is, at least you are honest with yourself! And, it's a new day! And, you are choosing you! So, go on and weedout those losers from your list baby!
February 20, 2022
Entering the New Year with a Positive Mind, Spirit having Faith and Encouragement is KEY to success
I hope you find this conversation encouraging and motivational! Happy New Year 2022! Let's get it!!
January 03, 2022
Did you know unhealed parent(s) (from traumatic past) causes more TRAUMA on their children?
Parenting is the most challenging task there is on the planet and I can bet anyone on this. But whats more challenging is raising children who can be able to maneuver well in the society from childhood to adult hood and become successful as well as good citizens in the community. In this episode will explore the use of Heavy punishment as a way to discipline children as well as the Soft pep talk technic and discuss why both technics might actually be harmful to children in a way that could create a bully and toxic behaviors which eventually carry on to adulthood! I hope you enjoy the discussion and find it meaningful!
October 20, 2021
It's insane to demand a Queen or King's treatment while not understanding the assignment
Lately, there has been this fascination with people demanding to be treated as Kings or a Queens. But it's uniquely interesting to also see how people hardly have an idea of what it really means to wear and carry these beautiful titles. So, since this manifestation is huge and real in our society it's also truly very important to learn the meaning behind these Big Crown!! And, by the way, I am not hating on anybody but it truly is significant to learn and understand the meanings! So, let's dive deep and break it all down!
October 07, 2021
Toxic Relationships and Toxic Partners
How do you know you are in a Toxic relationship? How do you move on from being in a Toxic Relationship? How do you fix a toxic relationship if you still love your partner! Steps provided in his episode could be some of the few things you can do if in a Toxic relationship!
September 06, 2021
I moved Mountains & crossed Valleys but didn't even realize it!! Understanding oneself!
I hope you enjoy listening to this podcast discussion as much as I enjoyed putting it together! I hope you get inspired to do your own self evaluation and along the way you get to discover your inner power and strength!
August 28, 2021
Youth and Sex: Je, wafahamu haya wewe kama kijana ama msichana?
Je wewe ni mazazi au mwanafunzi/mtoto? Kama hivyo basi haya maongezi yanakuhusu! Nikiwa na mgeni wetu leo Dr. Minja katika episode hii ya Youth and Sexual health, tutaongelea vitu ambavyo vina sababisha wazazi wasiweze kuongea na watoto wao kuhusu elimu hii ya afya ya uzazi. Pia tutagusia kwanini ni muhimu wazazi kuwaandaa watoto wao juu ya magonjwa yanayoweza kupatwa katika kujamiiana bila mpango ama bila kinga.
July 13, 2021
How healthy is your Mental Health? This is for the husbands, brothers, partners etc
Everyday is worth speaking about Mental Health issues. With me today, is a wine maker aka the man himself Cris Andy exchanging ideas and exploring steps and ways to navigate through tough times and how to cop with a stressful life, family situations, work situation and the feeling of overwhelmed while keeping the mind calm!
June 15, 2021
Finding your PURPOSE in life?
In this episode, I get very personal about my life, my struggles and victories! I decided I have read too many testimonies about how living a purposeful life is KEY to enternal HAPPINESS! So, I decided am going to seek this type of joy! But in order to be able to do so, I realized I needed to first do an all round self reflection so, I can understand my struggles and the source. I have always known and tried to make my personal HEALTH a priority but I my recent issues, I realized that I was actually putting me last in every way by not giving myself the proper TLC I needed. But this is it! I am done!!, I am out of here, I am going to find my Purpose in Life! I am not sure what to the journey might be like and what to expect but I am hopeful that I will learn and discover something meaningful! Thank you for joining me in this journey! I hope that you too have either found your purpose or are on your journey as well.
May 14, 2021
Dating a single mom can be challenging. Here are a few things you can expect!
A listener asked what it’s like dating a single mother? And the post is my opinion and personal experiences! Feel free to share your thought’s by pressing the message button!
February 15, 2021
In this discussion, we’ll explore the common mistakes for why most relationships and marriages fail. How lovers treat love and their partners like a shelf product, with and EXPIRATION date!
January 19, 2021
Feedback & Clarification from last podcast episode “You can not do it all by yourself!”
Thank you for all your AMAZING support! I really appreciate you🤗🤗
November 03, 2020
You can not do it all by yourself!
Ladies....If you are anything like me, this means; you describe yourself as follows: Independent, secured, can do it all by yourself, DON’T NEED A MAN, pull a chair and give me your listening ear coz this message is for you!
October 22, 2020
Recognizing an abusive partner.
In this episode, I will be covering a few things about Abusive and Toxic partners. How you can tell you are in an abusive relationship. I will also discuss why it’s important you DON’T speak to your abuser while you are EMOTIONAL. Always remember both men and women can be abusive in a relationship!
October 12, 2020
Self Love part 2: Not Every situation needs closure!
In this segment, I talk more about being okay with not feeling okay but you gotta do what you gotta do! I talk about accepting your partners feelings and being okay with it! I talk about why your self esteem matters!!
October 04, 2020
Self Love: Not Every situation needs closure!
I recorded this episode in light of a Netflix documentary I watched that made me think why do we, women force to be loved sometimes and why do we feel so ashamed that other people might think we failed (in reference to a failed marriage). I will have this up on so feel free to visit my blog and share your thoughts on this Episode! Also make sure to listen to the second part of this! Xo
October 04, 2020
Configuring myself. The toxic amazing stressed out self evaluation
In this episode, I talk more about my personal self evaluation. I talk about pain, forgiveness, patience, understanding and so much about life and why I needed to be my own hero! I hope you enjoy and stay tuned...
July 10, 2020