More Than One Story
By Dami Junaid
More Than One StoryMay 18, 2021
EP 16: The Ruthless Elimination Of Hurry w/ Melissa Jeanty
Mélissa Jeanty is the founder and CEO of MelJeanty & Co, a storytelling and digital marketing agency, that specializes in creating intentional content for individuals and brands. As a Marketing and Communication Specialist, her expertise is in photography, videography, graphic and website design, social media marketing, and brand development.
Born and raised in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, Melissa hails from a family with a legacy in Christian missions and ministry, and has also lived in Congo (DRC) and the United States.
In this episode we discuss the following:
a. The importance of pivoting in your career and life
b. Money mindsets for success
c. Benefits of upskilling as a business owner or entrepreneur
d. Tips for prioritizing rest and practicing the Sabbath
e. Practical ways to manage social media anxiety and addiction
RESOURCES & BOOKS
*The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
*God in my everything by Ken Shigematsu
*To Hell with the Hustle by Jefferson Bethke
*Podcast mentioned: “Fight Hustle, End Hurry” with John Mark Comer & Jefferson Bethke: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/fight-hustle-end-hurry/id1480300467
*Sacred Rest by Saundra Dalton-Smith
CONTACT
*Guest: Melissa Jeanty
-IG: @meljeanty
-Agency: https://www.meljeanty.com/meljeantyandco
*Host: Dami Junaid
-IG: @missjunaid // @taloje (Podcast)
-Podcast Website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
EP 15: From Lagos to the Diaspora: Navigating Hustle Culture w/ Nnamdi Okaa (Mista Dre)
In this episode, I speak with Nnamdi Okaa (aka Mista Dre) a versatile entertainer with a passion for radio, comedy, and live events.
As a comic, he’s produced comedy shows like "Comedy Unplugged" and acted in several theatre productions. In addition, Dre has hosted events and concerts with international headliners like Davido, Basketmouth, Adekunle Gold and more.
Under his creative collective (The Talkative), Dre hosts the comedy podcast "Backyard Bants". With each new project, Dre continues to push the culture forward and create a platform for fellow creatives.
We discuss the following topics:
a. Lessons learned from living in Nigeria
b. The pros and cons of hustle culture
c. The importance of embracing discomfort
d. The myth of social media influence
To Connect
*Guest: Nnamdi Okaa (Mista Dre)
-IG: mistadre_ | Podcast IG: @backyardbantss
*Host: Dami Junaid
-IG: @missjunaid | Podcast IG: @taloje
-Podcast website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
EP 14: Why You Need To Stop Playing Small w/ Deidre Sirianni
In this episode, I speak with Deidre Sirianni.
Deidre is a TEDx speaker, author, coach and founder of Radically Aligned Life - a coaching and mentoring academy dedicated to guiding individuals in actualizing their potential. Through a unique blend of metaphysical principles and practical tools, Deidre's mission is to awaken people to the truth of who they are and are meant to be.
In this episode, we discuss:
a. The importance of being radically aligned
b. Self deprecation vs appreciation
c. How to understand the language of your soul
d. Ostracism vs Belonging
e. Why you must decide to stop playing small
CONNECT
*Guest: Deidre Sirianni
-Website: https://radicallyaligned.com/
-Instagram: @iamdeidresiriani
-Book: "Turn On Your Light" (Amazon)
-Turn On Your Light Qui: https://radicallyaligned.com/tyloquiz/
*Podcast Website: www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
*Podcast IG: @taloje
*Host IG (Dami Junaid): @missjunaid
EP 13: I Struggle With Anxiety. Here’s How I Solo Traveled To 24 Countries! w/ Lindsay Judy
In this episode I speak with Lindsay Judy, a speech pathologist from Texas who has solo traveled to 24 countries!
We discuss topics like:
a. How to manage solo travel anxiety
b. Solo travel tips and travel fails
c. Navigating adult friendships as a 30-something year old
d. Finding contentment in your singlehood
e. How to not fall into the comparison trap
*Enneagram Test: https://enneagramtest.com/quiz
TO CONNECT
*Guest (Lindsay Judy)
-IG: @lindsayljudy
*Host (Dami Junaid)
-IG: @missjunaid
-Podcast: www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
-IG: @taloje
EP 12: How Modern Women Are Rewriting the Rules To Find Happiness w/ Efuwa Tomety
In this episode, I speak with Efuwa Tomety - the founder of Adaaba, which is an online magazine and community that's committed to uplifting the multifaceted essence of women.
We discuss topics like:
a. Boundaries and why it’s needed for a stress-free life
b. The struggles of being a first born child
c. Signs the man you're dating is right for you
d. Why successful women struggle in dating
e. How we need to rethink the role of women in society
To Connect
*Guest: Efuwa Tomety
-IG: @efuwatomety AND @adaabamagazine
-Website: https://www.adaaba.com/
*Host: Dami Junaid
-IG: @missjunaid AND @taloje
-Podcast Website: https://www.taloje.com/
EP 11: On Critical Thinking & Cancel Culture: What Immigrants Wish The US Knew w/ Peter Kang
In this episode, I speak with Peter Kang - a Korean American TCK.
Topics discussed include:
a. Cancel culture & the importance of critical thinking for navigating conflict
b. The struggles of being on a non-immigrant visa in the States
c. Why we need critical thinking in the world today
d. Debt culture in the States
e. Why colleges & universities need to teach financial literacy
TO CONNECT
*Guest: Peter Kang (IG: @eunsung.hero)
*Podcast Website: www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
*Podcast IG: @taloje
*Host IG: @missjunaid
EP 10: Niche or Not? The Art of Balancing Multiple Interests w/ Afro Electronic Artist MartinSes
In this episode, I speak with Martin Ogun - a Toronto-based Nigerian artist under the moniker "Martinses". Martin is a key member of Afrique Like Me - which is a Toronto-based collective that also includes Razaq El Toro and Sonic Griot. The trio specialize in curating music experiences that celebrate art, electronic dance, and alternative music from Africa and the diaspora.
Topics discussed include:
a. Afrobeat vs Afrobeats
b. How to develop a mature relationship with your parents
c. Navigating power structures and confrontation in different societies
d. Should you niche down when you have multiple passions?
e. Why you need to have more difficult conversations
f. How to build community
g. The struggles with starting a fashion line
TO CONNECT
*Martin Ogun
-IG: @martinses // @afriquelikeme
-Spotify: "Martinses"
-Website: https://www.martinses.ca/music
*Taloje (More Than One Story podcast)
-Website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
-IG: @taloje
EP 9: How To Design A Life That Feels Like Home w/ Digital Nomad Jamie Reed
In this episode, I speak with digital nomad Jamie Reed on how to create a life that feels like home and is true to you.
We discuss the following topics:
a. How liking yourself can transform your life
b. The importance of having authentic friends
c. How travel expands your mind and shatters echo chambers
d. Steps to creating your dream life that feels like home
e. Money and designing a rich life around your values
TO CONNECT
*Jamie Reed
-IG: @jamie.himself AND @the90daynomad
-Website: www.the90daynomad.com
*Taloje
Website: www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
IG: @taloje
EP 8: Single & Thriving: Your Ultimate Key to Healing Heartbreak and Finding Love w/ John Kenny
In this episode, I speak with relationship coach John Kenny about the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship as a single person and how that can transform your love life.
Topics discussed include:
a. Attachment styles and the different types
b. How to cultivate self confidence and healthy sense of self when single
c. How to navigate and heal a broken heart d. Self sabotage and trauma bonding
e. How women can manage biological clock anxiety
f. Masculine vs feminine energy and which leads in a relationship
and more...
CONNECT
John Kenny (Guest)
*Website: https://johnkennycoaching.com/ (see footer for all social links)
*Twitter: https://twitter.com/johnkennycoach
*Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/
*E: info@johnkennycoaching.com
Podcast (More Than One Story)
*Website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
*Instagram: @taloje
EP 7: How Boarding School Inspired My Culturally Diverse Career Path w/ Dr. Aman Desai
In this episode, I speak with Dr. Aman Desai, a Third Culture Kid with roots in Dubai, India, England & Canada about the ways in which is formative experiences defined his career path and approach to life. We discuss the following:
a. The impact of boarding school on development
b. The struggle with belonging when you have multiple homes
c. When to embrace culture to fit in a new environment
d. The one change that's needed in healthcare
e. Practicing medicine in the West vs developing countries
Guest bio
Aman was born in Dubai but moved to Canada soon after, where he spent the majority of his formative years. As a teenager, Aman went to 2 boarding schools - first after relocating with his family to India, and later continued on independently to another boarding school in England. His exposure to a diverse curriculum and culture, as well as the stark contrast in healthcare between these two countries led to his interest in medicine. Upon graduation, Aman chose to move back to India to gain hands-on experience and deepen his knowledge about healthcare in developing countries.
After a couple years in practice, Aman returned to England to pursue his Masters at the London Business School before moving on to a career in Healthcare and Life Science Strategy Consulting in New York City. In a full circle moment, Aman recently moved back to Canada and is now taking the leap into healthcare entrepreneurship.
CONNECT
*Website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
*Guest IG: @aman.desai
*Podcast IG: @taloje
EP 6: Navigating Grief & The Untold Mental Health Struggles Of Immigrants w/ Ore Adegboyega Osiki
In this episode, I speak with Ore Adegboyega Osiki, a dual licensed British trained Clinical Pharmacist currently based in Ontario, Canada.
We discuss the following:
a. Our experiences losing a loved one and navigating grief
b. How mental health can be a luxury for immigrants in the face of duty
c. Adult friendships and why they are hard
d. How to prepare and plan when moving abroad
e. Process of transitioning as a pharmacist to Canada
f. Canadian politeness and what it really means
CONNECT
Instagram: @oresupasta | Youtube: @oresupasta1363
Website: www.supastawellness.com
Podcast Website: https://www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
EP 5: From Tanzania to the Top: How Cultural Roots Shape Success in the West w/ Hoshil Desai
Hoshil is a 4th generation Tanzanian who is originally of Indian descent. He moved to the States at the start of the millennium to study computer systems engineering. After taking several detours and exploring diverse career paths, he now lives in Canada and is a Managing Director at Klick Health. In this episode, I dive into his life in Tanzania, how his upbringing has shaped his mindset and impacted his career path.
In this episode, we discuss the following (and more):
a. Misconceptions the West has about Africa
b. Cultural values & mindset that guarantee success
c. Pros & cons of individualistic vs collectivist societies
d. The importance of exploring multiple career interests
e. Culture shocks from moving abroad
IG: @taloje
Website: https://www.taloje.com/
EP 4: From Venezuela to Canada: The Resilient Journey of a Latin Refugee Woman w/ Maria Mendez
In this episode, I speak with Maria, a Latin refugee woman who has overcome immense challenges to build a new life in Canada. Maria shares her story of leaving her home country of Venezuela in search of safety and opportunity, and the barriers she faced during her transition to life in Canada.
Topics discussed include:
a. The refugee crisis in Venezuela
b. End SARS protest in Nigeria
c. Navigating language barriers and cultural differences in a new country
d. The Canadian experience barrier for new immigrants
e. What immigrants wish you knew about the refugee crisis
EP 3: The Power of Embodying Authenticity & Healing Trauma w/ Life Coach Katt Grant
In this episode, I discuss the power of showing up as your authentic self and leveraging wisdom from your past experiences & trauma with a Somatic & Spiritual Empowerment Coach, Katt Grant.
Some topics discussed include:
1. How to find a home within yourself
2. Navigating belonging & friendships as an adult
3. Recognizing and overcoming limiting beliefs
4. How to tap into your inner brilliance
5. When to leverage therapy vs coaching on your healing journey
Guest: Katt Grant (IG: @katt.grant)
Connect with me: (IG: @taloje or www.taloje.com/morethanonestory)
EP 2: How To Navigate An Identity Crisis w/ Jen Mohindra
"Where are you from?" As most Third Culture Kids (TCKs) know, it can be a struggle to answer this question. Jen Mohindra is a TCK of Sottish & Indian descent. In this episode, she shares her journey and experiences from navigating her identity as an adopted TCK who lived on 4 continents. She is the founder of People Like Us - a coaching program & Facebook community that helps adult TCKs leverage their journey to find their place in the world.
EP 1: How To Navigate Suffering & Do Life In A Pandemic w/ Uzochukwu Chima
"Fear is inevitable but suffering is optional". In this episode, I discuss how to rethink suffering with the founder of Kaigo Inc., Uzo Chima. We discuss the importance of perspective taking & spirituality - and how this mindset can enable one to navigate suffering, especially while living abroad. Uzo shares his experience as a TCK and the impact of losing his dad at a young age as a defining moment.
CONNECT:
Dami: www.taloje.com (IG: @taloje)
Uzo: www.kaigoinc.com (IG: @uzochukwuchima)
EP 0: Intro
Welcome to the More Than One Story podcast! A space to elevate the multifaceted identities of individuals by empowering them to break out of boxes and recognize that they’re more than one story. Join Third Culture Kid (TCK) Dami as she unpacks the stories & stereotypes that try to hold us back with a guest across diverse backgrounds. By sharing these unique stories with all its nuances and complexities, the hope is that it’ll challenge you to rethink the narratives that are being forced on you.
Website: www.taloje.com/morethanonestory
IG: @taloje