Dear Former InLaws
By The Phoenix
This podcast is about one womanās search for answers, clarity, survival and inspiration during and after an ugly divorce that blindsided her. She is Eno!
Dear Former InLawsApr 04, 2022
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Get a life ! Donāt let your job define you!
Hi Explores! Welcome to todayās episode. In this episode weāre going to talk about how often we let unsatisfactory jobs define us. Is your job unfulfilling? Do you feel unseen? How does it affect your life? Letās talk about it!
Dec 12, 202317:47
When Youāre Blindsided by a breakup
In this episode Eno talks about the immediate affects of hearing about a pending divorce or break up. What do you do? How did you react? Letās talk about it!
Sep 24, 202313:18
Your coworkers are NOT your friends ā ļø
Letās talk about it! Letās do a deep dive into this conversation. Too many times there is suffering from people talking about hard times they have at the office. Do you find yourself being alienated? Are you the one alienating other people? What does it feel like trying to build relationships with people who seem to have fleeting spirits? Letās talk about it!
Aug 25, 202318:25
Ewww I married a con man
My vulnerability is no secret. I had an emotionally, financially, and mentally devastating divorce. In this podcast I talk about some of the things I experienced on my journey, some of the things that broke me and how I am today. Letās talk about it! Donāt forget to buy my book on Amazon.
Jul 28, 202330:09
Girl! Leave that old āfriendshipādoor closed. You left for a reason š
Hey Explorerās! Have there been friendships that you left in the past and thought about revisiting? Is there any reason to leave an old friendship in the past? Is there a reason to open up that door today? Letās talk about it!
May 18, 202317:13
Losing friends during a divorce
You never think he will lose āfriendsā during his separation or break up. Why does this happen? Letās talk about it! Donāt forget to share this podcast with anyone you know going through a break up. Join me on Facebook ā Africaās ambassador of possibility
Apr 17, 202323:42
What not to tell someone going through a divorce or separation.
I think Iāve heard it all personally! Anything from āitās your faultā to ā you didnāt pray enoughā letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202312:10
Ways to treat yourself for free
When youāre going through a rough patch itās important you treat yourself to something nice. Sometimes you donāt have the money. I can relate! What are some of the ways that you can treat yourself for free? Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202308:58
What are early signs of abuse?
There are different types of abuse that we sometimes miss on the front end. Is it possible to detect any signs of emotional abuse at the beginning of a relationship? Letās talk about !
Apr 17, 202316:26
Be patient with yourself after trauma
How kind are you to yourself? This quick podcast is my reminder to you to be kind to yourself during any trauma. Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202306:41
If you think divorce canāt happen to you...
Are you sure that you canāt be blindsided by divorce? Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202310:53
Strangers can affect our lives positively
In the short podcast, I share with you several instances where total strangers have positively affected my life. Do you think itās possible to benefit from the words of a stranger? Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202308:34
Give yourself permission to let people go
This is an area of suffering for many people. We have all been there. Are you holding on to people who know longer serve you. Had a relationship once with people who today or not on the same page with you? What do you do when you donāt feel empowered by that relationship? What do you do when you are no longer on the same page and it is not healthy? Do what our large intestines do intuitively- Let that shit go.
Apr 17, 202308:54
How do you accept your pending divorce?
When it comes to break up, separation or divorce, many people asked me my opinion on how to accept it. Itās not a simple answer to get. Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202313:52
743 (just kidding) signs your future in laws will be toxic
In this episode will talk about future in-laws and some of the things people have shared with me on their journey. Iāll even share some personal stories. Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202320:27
When they donāt believe in your dreams
This topic will never get old for me. What do you do when someone has contempt for your goals? When people are quick to tell you that what youāre working on is not worth anything., how do you wrap your mind around that? Letās talk about it!
Apr 17, 202309:35
Starting over in your 40s with no money and no hope
The fact is there is hope. If youāre starting over in life, there is hope if you were alive. Whether you are moving to a new city or from a new state, emotional or otherwise, letās talk about a few ways to get your mind right. In this podcast Iāll share my personal story with you. Letās talk about it!
Apr 11, 202320:51
Karma and contempt: If you think divorce canāt happen to you.
In this topic, I share my opinions on my favorite subject. Letās talk about people who look down on people whoāve been through a divorce and think divorce canāt happen to them. Does staying in a marriage where you are disempowered mean you are ātogetherā ? Letās talk about it !
Apr 06, 202314:27
These Christians are holier than Christ š¤¦š½āāļø
These no-grace having Christians are doing the most. Letās talk about it!
Feb 22, 202314:56
Rekindling a broken friendship? Think firstš
I recently had an opportunity to rekindle a friendship and I want to talk about it. What would you do? Letās talk about it!
Feb 10, 202311:06
Being the strong friend and experiencing your divorce
Letās talk about what the āstrong friendāgoes through at the beginning of her divorce. How does she navigate this space? Letās talk about it!
Jan 16, 202312:34
To men who treat their women with spite
There are certain people who stay with women they donāt love and treat them in spite. Why do they do that? Letās talk about it!
Dec 23, 202216:01
You canāt keep justifying yourself to people.
How do you feel when someone Keeps asking you to justify yourself to them? What do you do when someone keeps questioning your growth? Or your decisions? Letās talk about it!
Dec 21, 202209:09
When to walk away from disrespect?
So many times we over analyze how we feel about this respect. Not every conversation needs to be analyzed. When someone treats you probably there are times when you just have to walk. Letās talk about it!
Dec 13, 202210:38
Damn! Thereās an elephant in the room and bitches are being weird!
Hi Explores! In todayās episode weāre going to talk about moments when something is weird in the space and nobody wants to talk about it! Letās talk about it!
Dec 02, 202210:26
Dating Red Flags- Letās do a quick rundown on this.
Hello fellow Explores! In todayās podcast weāre going to talk about red flags and dating. Weāre gonna do a quick rundown of the list and hopefully some of this information sticks! Letās talk about it!
Oct 31, 202211:24
What are you doing to get to YOUR next level
In this episode we are talking about Simple ways that we can make steps to get to the next level. Most people will be stuck where they are. What does it look like to truly get over a hump or move into the space where you think you belong. Letās talk about it!
Sep 09, 202210:29
A few random things Iāve learned on friendships
In this podcast will talk about a few random things Iāve learned about friendships. Letās talk about it!
Sep 09, 202210:02
On being there for a hurting soul- sans judgement (Re-uploaded from 2019)
Hi People! Thank you for listening. Share this podcast on your page or platform. Someone needs to hear it. In todayās podcast we are talking about the importance of being there for someone who is in pain in a way that makes them feel comfortable. Itās not always about you. How can that be done? Letās talk about it!
Jul 07, 202213:26
When your friend dumps you for a boy ... What to doš¤·š½āāļø
In this episode will talk about women who ādumpātheir friends because of a new dating relationship. Is there a different way to see it? Letās talk about it! Send me a voice memo! anchor.fm/dearformerinlaws/message
Jun 26, 202215:37
The plus side of your post divorce journey
There are so many reasons to look forward to your new post divorce journey. Letās talk about it!
Jun 26, 202210:55
Letās talk about friendshipsā¦again
In this episode weāre gonna talk about friendships. Thereās so much suffering so many people when it comes to this subject. Letās talk about what it means to us and what it means to support the friends we have in our lives and the ones we need to get rid of for that matterā¦ Letās talk about it!
Jun 02, 202213:26
What does a cowardly leader look like ?
On my journey postdivorce, I saw so many mediocre leaders and decided to talk about that here. When you are on a journey where your self-esteem is being tried, you have to make sure that youāre being held up by good leadership, friends, and people
Apr 26, 202215:52
They had contempt during my divorceš²
In this episode I briefly share about some of the people who had contempt for me during my divorce. There are some people who did not know how to behave through no fault of their own, they were others who thought I was cursed. They were a bunch of people who thought that my situation was contagious and did not want to be ābotheredā. Ultimately I have learned that People are people. How many just do the best they can. Letās talk about it!
Apr 20, 202214:06
What some men could learn from my fatherās brand of parenting.
Hi Explorers ! In this podcast I am talking about my father and some of the things I feel made him an excellent dad. I am unimpressed with men who torment their daughters with mediocre and unkind parenting. Do better, please. Please share the podcast. Enjoy!
Apr 17, 202217:15
What I wish I knew re my divorce journey ( My most transparent confession )
For years Iāve been afraid to speak my truth. It started with a not-so subtle message from an āin-lawānot wanting me to speak MY truth. I let that shackle go in this podcast. Letās talk about it!
Apr 07, 202221:48
Types of men to watch out for during a separation or divorceš±
After speaking with several women on their journey, I decided to talk about this post divorce/post separation journey. What type of man do you watch out for after a separation? What do you do so that youāre not taken advantage of after divorce? Letās talk about it!
Apr 04, 202220:18
Going through a breakup during Covid 19
I got a message from someone asking me to post more on breakups and divorce. This is for the one that wants me to talk about breakups during COVID-19. What do you need to keep in mind? Is it different from a break up outside of a pandemic?
Let's talk about it!
If you would like me to talk about court procedures during the pandemic, reach out on Facebook and let me know. " Africa's Ambassador of Possibility"
#covid #breakup #breakupduringcovid #dealingwithabreakupduringcovid #covid19breakup #divorceduringcovid
Let's talk about it!
If you would like me to talk about court procedures during the pandemic, reach out on Facebook and let me know. " Africa's Ambassador of Possibility"
#covid #breakup #breakupduringcovid #dealingwithabreakupduringcovid #covid19breakup #divorceduringcovid
Apr 04, 202213:05
Dealing with mean people š¤¦š½āāļø
How do you deal with a mean person. Why are people mean? Does it matter? What do you do in those instances? Letās talk about it!
Apr 04, 202216:01
When youāre criticized In a hurtful way
Letās talk about criticism that we get from people. How is that criticism delivered? How do we experience it? What do we do when we donāt feel good about ourselves after said critique? Letās talk about it!
Apr 04, 202215:58
When youāre afraid to love again
In this podcast we talk about being afraid to love especially after divorce or separation. It happens a lotā¦ Youāve been hurt and you donāt want to be hurt again. Letās talk about it!
Apr 04, 202220:30
What does a sincere apology sound like?
A lot of us are walking around in titled when we give apologies. We think āI already said Iām sorryā or āThey need to get over itā. Unwilling to make ourselves vulnerable, we act entitled to forgiveness. Letās talk about it!
Apr 04, 202214:51
When someone is giving you the silent treatment
I had a recent experience with someone who gave me the silent treatment. I had no idea that this was a āthingā. Has that happened to you before? Letās talk about it!
Apr 02, 202216:13
Dealing with Selfish People
Hi Fellow Explorers! In this episode we are talking about selfish people. Why are people selfish? Why should we deal with them? What do we need to know for our own self-esteem and protection. Letās talk about it!
Apr 02, 202213:18
Dating a broke or broken man
One of my friends said many women date or marry down! I made some observations about this. Letās talk about it!. Donāt forget to find me on Instagram IG@ dearformerinlaws
Nov 25, 202115:34
Should you reach out to someone youāve not spoken to?
Hi! Explorers! In this podcast we will talk about when or if it is a good idea to reach out to someone you havenāt spoken to a while. Iāll share my personal stories of three recent scenarios. Letās talk about it!
Jun 07, 202122:08
Shout out to people who move from one state/country to a new place
Inspired by an amazing conversation at the market today, I decided to talk about this often times quiet subject. It is a big deal to move from one place to the other. I did it and it was not the easiest thing in the world. What are your thoughts on people who move like that? Iām personally impressed Letās talk about it!
Jun 02, 202113:56
Loneliness from the break up
Right after youāve been blindsided by a break up, and for some time after, you might feel an unforgiving sense of loneliness. That was my story!. Letās talk about it! #divorce
Apr 17, 202119:03
What does vulnerability mean to you?
In this episode Iām sharing my thoughts on vulnerability and why it is important to me. Donāt forget to join me on Instagram ādear former in-lawsā
Apr 05, 202111:59
š¤ Should I go back to school in my 40s?
Nothing will challenge your sense of self like a divorce. You will often ask yourself if you have enough education to navigate the rest of your life. Should you go back to school? Letās talk about it!
Jan 15, 202110:03