Not your blaxk barbie
By Not your blaxk barbie
Notyourblaxkbarbie is a podcast hosted by Topshada where every Tuesday her and her rotating panel discuss everything from dating, self love, sexuality, politics and much more !!! Welcome to our pursuit of happiness!!
@Topshada @notyourblaxbarbie
@Topshada @notyourblaxbarbie
Not your blaxk barbie Apr 24, 2018
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Allow me to reintroduce myself ๐งโโ๏ธ๐งโโ๏ธ
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie Iโm solo just me and my thoughts. A short episode where i reintroduce who i am and how notyourblaxkbarbie started. Why Iโm single...etc ... enjoy and thank you for tuning in
Dec 20, 202027:05
She want a big gangaligangalae๐๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie Iโm joined by @shaneanthony_the1st and twelve. A lot going on this episode but itโs always jokes! We start off with birth control and how important it is to have a effective pull out game or birth control๐
. Why do celebrities feel the need to air their relationship problems online[ lil baby, majah, future and more) me entering the world of dating apps and more ! Thanks for tuning in
Dec 18, 202001:53:39
New year New me letโs try AGAIN๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie Iโm joined by my girl sydney from the @theglowprjct! We start the episode off with me affirming my 2021 hot Gurl commandments when it comes to dating. We then jump into a full discussion about what our idea of a healthy relationship looks like, stupidest things we ever allowed while dating, tapping into our divine feminine energy in 2021 and much more! Thanks for tuning i.
Dec 18, 202001:00:43
Wake me up when 2020 leaves ๐ฉ๐ฉ
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie Iโm joined by my bestie @weedfairy. We talk entanglement, maternal mortality rates in black women and some ways we plan to advocate for ourselves and last but not least men๐ wanting to benefit from relationships from women.
Jul 25, 202041:40
You gotta be shitting me ๐ญ๐ฃ
Welcome to another episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. On todayโs high episode Iโm joined by freshfeen and tiff. We kick it off with some more thoughts the black lives matter movement then jump into a conversation about our love language, have you ever caught yourself tolerating a friend? Nicki Minaj collaborating with 69 and much more!! Thanks for tuning in
Jun 18, 202001:20:38
It's Black lives matter or your mamaโs a hoe!โ๐พโ๐พ
Welcome to another episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Iโm joined by Sydney from the glow project podcast we jump right into whatโs on everyoneโs mind and the most important movement of 2020 black lives matter!! We also discuss insecure. Nominating Lawrence for fuckboy of the year ๐ and what quaratine has taught us. This episode is in honor of all those affected by police brutality, racism and a system placed to keep us down! Enjoy
Jun 06, 202001:58:09
Let's dive into the fuckery๐ฅด๐ฅด
Welcome to another episode of not your blaxk barbie. Iโm joined by Justin where we jump right into the Lana del Rey fiasco๐ (whoever she is) why do white women hate losing to black women so much? Get over it!...not skipping a beat we switch over to relationships, advice we would we could give our younger selves, his views on straight men benefitting off the lgbt community and much more!
May 27, 202001:23:41
Fall๐๐ฝ back๐๐ฝ Boy ๐๐ฝ
Welcome back to a new episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. On this episode Iโm joined by Shane and twelve we start by giving a quarantine update. How you guys living cause maโam this is ghetto! We then jump into a real conversation about sexual misconduct mostly based off the Chris stylez situation. Fellas could you be friends with someone who has rapey vibes? Jumping into another talk about why itโs so hard for people to deal with rejection and much more! Thank you always like comment share!
May 09, 202002:21:49
(Episode 38: Trashyams๐๐คญ
Welcome to another episode of not your blaxk barbie. On this episode I'm joined again by Fairy and Shane for an Intense conversation revolved around instagram removing likes? How does it effect influencers and business owners who use these platforms as a way to make money?, Wasting no time we jump into a real spicy conversation that your going to have to hit play to find out! enjoy loves
Dec 06, 201901:06:13
(Episode 37:) Non common Sexual ๐๐ค๐ฏ
Welcome back to another episode of not your blaxk Barbie. After another mental health break Iโm back on the panel joined by weedfairy and Shane. We start the conversation with Shane breaking down his yams appointment ๐ then jumping into the Very controversial topic going around T. I taking his adult daughter to the Gyn to see if her hymen is still in place๐ฅบ๐คจ, we discussed the types of behaviors we avoid when dating, crazy exes, open relationships and much more tune in !!!
Nov 24, 201902:10:01
(Episode 36:)Do it for the Gram ๐ ๐คก
On this episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is back and joined by twelve and Kelsey. Jumping right into a discussion about Jay- z becoming affiliated with the NFL, Is jayZ a sellout ?? Popeyes vs chic filet chicken sandwiches๐ and how the internet pretty much makes the rules. Who exactly are these instagram Influencers influencing ? Hot girl summer updates, Dating updates and much more! Tap in
Aug 28, 201901:09:37
(Episode 35) Who run the world ๐๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is joined by the fresh feen from the podium podcast. We start off by discussing Alabamaโs controversial abortion law๐, should men play a role in a womanโs decision to have an abortion ? His views on abortion overall. The conversation then flows into his thoughts and appreciation for black women minus the wigs ๐ฉ๐ฉ, dating , baecation payment rules and much much more !! Tap in ๐โจโจ
May 21, 201901:36:08
(Episode 34) Here to slay โจ๐
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On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Amber start off by discussing all of our fave Lewks from the met gala. Black excellence and why pop culture emulates black culture.โจ๐๐พ, the conversation then flows to Ayesha curry RTT interview. Should woman want to be desired by anyone else then her husband/partner ?? ๐ค we also touch on mental health, discrimination, growing up black and much more !! Tap in
May 11, 201901:04:51
Episode 33: Still I rise, Maya Angelou vibes โจ๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada, Sasha and Melissa discuss what is to be a professional black women when filling in white spaces, our own personal experiences with inequality in the workplace/ school. The conversation then flows into ways to create more spaces to uplift and support each other (building practices, mentoring) dating updates and so much more! Tap in ๐๐ฅโจ
Apr 23, 201901:02:54
(Episode 32) If you were wondering, mind your business๐นโจ
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Top shada and Erin Ebony have a seat at the table where we breakdown what being a woman means to us? Our favorite LOUD black girls โจ๐น. Terms used in the LGBT/ Trans community๐ the importance of self love, creating your own identity and not falling into societyโs labels and of course these Niggas ๐ฉ๐๐๐
Mar 27, 201901:11:01
(Episode 31) Thank god we donโt look like what weโve been through๐๐ฝโจ
On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. In honor of womenโs history month topshada and Jenny have a seat at the table, where we discuss the importance of sisterhood, overcoming the struggles of teen motherhood๐
๐ฅด, finally becoming career woman, staying glowed up, jordyn woods/ Kardashianโs and much more!๐ฌ
Mar 06, 201956:18
{Episode 30} We were rooting for you!๐ฎ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ
On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is joined by Justin where they discuss everything from Jussie smollet๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ, Ed buck and how privilege plays a big role on how the media reacts to Current events. Grammy talk, little boy in Texas raises 5k selling hot chocolate in hopes to build the wall๐ช๐ฃ, nyc bans discrimination based on hair and a whole lot more ! Tap in
Feb 22, 201901:10:05
[Episode 29] Going bad on them anyway ๐ฌ๐
On this episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Join me as i go down popular news. Super Bowl, Liam neeson. Why no Nicki slander is accepted on this podcast๐๐๐พโโ๏ธ and we wrap it up with the good bad guys talking about their insecurities. Why woman who want only casual sex are perfect ๐ฉ๐๐ and why in 2019 we are not carrying pre existing issues into new relationships, friendships or situationship. Enjoy !! This is part of a lost episode ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ
Feb 06, 201951:46
(Episode 28): Now we do what we want ๐คโจ๐ง
On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and the panel start it off with answering fanmail๐ฉ๐ญ Would you have an affair with your boss? Your friends father?๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ . How our sex lives have changed since becoming adult adults ๐
๐คฃ๐คฃ? What astrology sign weโd never date again? Maintaining your happiness and why weโd never settle because no one on my 600 pound life does ๐๐๐
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Jan 23, 201901:30:38
(Episode 27): #MUTERKELLY ๐ฎ๐ฌ
On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and the panel catch up and discuss the R- kelly docu-series๐. Join us as we walk through our experience growing up as black girls. Recognizing how our own culture created a monster. Assatta McGee super fan ๐ฃ๐ค and much more! Enjoy
Jan 15, 201901:18:16
(Episode 26:) Get the fuck out ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ฉ๐ฃ๐คฃ๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Drama! Drama! Find out what happens when someone crashes the party with a plus one ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ฉ the good bad guys break down why you should always have your feelings in check ๐ *fuck that ladies hold it down* and a special appearance by @thefreshfeen
Jan 09, 201955:36
(Episode 25): 2018 wrap up ๐๐พ๐๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and the panel discuss best and worst news, best quotes, most hoe-able moments of 2018๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐
,is ass everything gonna still be trending in the New Year ๐ฅดand so much more!! Did some editing Sry for the slight background music party vibes literally๐๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ
Jan 02, 201901:14:37
(Episode 24): Girls need love ๐ฌ
On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada is joined by a panel of men!! We discuss bad communication between the sexes, finessing while dating, expecting not to expect anything ๐ meek mills new album๐ฅ๐ฅ , cardi and offset and a whole lot of music talk!!
Dec 18, 201801:01:37
[Episode 23]: Overnight celebrity ๐๐ฝ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada has a discussion covering the Britney Renner book โjudge this coverโ๐. Why Iโm staying away from marriage, men and the games ๐ฉ๐ฃ๐๐ฝ. Justin gives us on his current cuffing season situation and much more !!!
Dec 04, 201841:48
(Episode 22) : Flip the switch... ๐ป โ๐พโ๐พ
On the latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and friends discuss ghosting the new dating trend that was touched on in this seasons โinsecureโ. Find out who on the panel landed in therapy ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ฉ, social media stalking ๐ n who ended up grabbing back gifts given. ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ also a huge birthday shoutout to the baddest puta Joseline Hernandez ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐
Nov 06, 201858:49
[ Episode 21] : BTS!! ๐ซ๐ซ
Latest episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends behind the scene episode. Where we revisit Cam the prophet๐คฃ๐ฉ the ladies on the panel talk about white privilege, popping out babies and find out what mad side chick claimed to have HPV ๐ซ๐ซ๐
Oct 30, 201831:19
[Episode 20] : Anybody tryna buy a heart?๐ค๐
On this episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends discuss some reasons as to why people are no longer pursuing long term relationship? How long you should date before popping the big question๐ maintaining a good balance between your friendships and relationship and much more!! Tune in
Oct 02, 201801:00:58
[Episode 19]: Two and a half some๐ต๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
On this episode of not your blaxk barbie. The ladies have a seat at the table to engage in girl talk. Find out why being shallow will keep you from the best sex of your life๐ต๐ซ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธand listen to me find out my baby cousin had a damn two and a half some ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ญ
Sep 11, 201856:11
[Episode 18]: Shake that ass but watch yourself ๐๐ต๐
On this episode on not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and friends discuss the current ass culture. First time experiences with anal sex, should you send that lemme eat your ass text and much more!๐ฅ๐ต๐
Sep 01, 201852:05
[Episode 17]: Alexa Play : Everybody Mad ๐๐๐ฉ๐คฃ
On the lastest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends discuss the Tyson Beckford vs Kim Kardashian beef๐. Find out what the guys on the panel really think about women who get tons of plastic surgery? Find out who on the panel would get plastic surgery.? What kinds? And please ladies make sure your butt doesn't stink ๐คฃ๐ฉ๐๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธEnjoy luvs
Aug 07, 201856:17
[Episode 16]: Matchmaking or Clout chasing ๐๐ฐ๐พ
On the lastest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Justin discuss dating to marry reality tv shows๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ. Everyone looking for a platform and in todays day and age the perfect way to get that is Clout! Justin also reveals he only use to date White guys and why??
Jul 31, 201855:45
[Episode 15]: Single. Thirty. Thriving... Glowing painsโจ๐คช๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Justin have a one on one discussing turning 30๐
surviving your 20s through the good bad and ugly !
Jul 24, 201851:49
[ Episode 14] : Keke do you love me ?๐ซ๐๐
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends exchange disastrous relationship stories from someone getting kicked down the stairs๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐คฃ, Lover vs co worker๐
all while breaking down ways to keep your keke loving you?๐ฌ๐Enjoy luvs
Jul 17, 201853:41
[Episode 13] A seat at the table ๐ฅ๐คธ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ง๐พโโ๏ธ๐๐พ
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and her girlfriends discuss the current hookup culture, past ans current hoe phases๐ค๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐and Drake having a bloodclot baby on all of us!! Im sick Drake๐คฎ#wholelottagangshit
Jul 03, 201855:48
[Episode 12]: Asking for myself ?๐๐ค
On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends talk about rethinking monogamy with your partner, living a non monogamous lifestyle๐ค and a breakdown of how to make both lifestyles work ๐คฃ๐ซ
Jun 26, 201857:07
[Episode 11]: Retail Me Not ๐คฎ๐ค๐ฐ
Topshada and friend share retail horror stories. From stinky feet and beating meat tune in ! ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ๐คฎ
Jun 19, 201842:34
[Episode 10]: " I'm good luv...Enjoy"๐๐พ๐
Topshada and Friends talk about curving being curved, bad breakups and much more !!!
Jun 12, 201856:30
[Episode 9]: Who is she to you? ๐๐ฉ๐ฝโ๐ป
Topshada and Fairy have a one on one session discussing doing background checks, online dating and how to remain sane while dating?
Jun 05, 201849:30
[Episode 8]: Players gon Play ๐ Cheating stories ๐ฃ
Topshada and her rotating panel discuss times they've been cheated on, being a cheater and overcoming it all!
May 17, 201851:23
[Episode 7]: No sides please! Main course only ๐๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Top shada and friends talk threesomes, trusting your partner ๐and ask the question is there a such thing as a "good sidechick"? ๐ค
May 08, 201842:21
[Episode 6]: It All Falls Down ๐๐ฅ
Topshada and friends discuss the bill cosby verdict, Kanye wacky ass amongst other things race related
May 01, 201854:46
[Episode 5]: Dip it low pick it up slow๐๐๐๐พ๐๐พ
Top shada and friends make it nasty ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐
Apr 24, 201844:40
[Episode 4]: Social media- What you really sign up for? ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Topshada and friends talk about social media and the affects on todayโs society
Apr 17, 201831:13
[Episode 3] :Teach me how to love ๐ฆ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Topshada and friends dicuss ways to keep sex fun whether by yourself or with a partner
Apr 10, 201831:14
[Episode 2]: Dating 101: do we really have to?๐
Topshada and friends discuss the doโs and donโt of dating and sex amongst other things.
Apr 06, 201845:52
[Episode 1] :The Pearls have been snatched
When you canโt find anyone to follow you have to find a way to lead๐น
Mar 27, 201805:07