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ReactiveAttachments

By Reactive Attachments

#ReactiveAttachmentsPodcast I started this podcast as a companion to the #RAD caregiver support group. Caregivers struggling to be believed, wrestling with regret and the many complexities of attachment. Putting the truth, pain and remorse in context, with the goal of expanding the conversations about our strained lives, marriages, careers, reputations, and sanity. Let’s dive in to these topics together!
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Reactive Attachment Disorder and Marriage

ReactiveAttachmentsApr 04, 2023

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Reactive Attachment Disorder and Marriage

Reactive Attachment Disorder and Marriage

Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) can have a significant impact on the marriage of caregivers of children who are adopted. RAD is a condition that arises from a lack of appropriate attachment or bonding between a child and their caregiver during their early years of development. Children with RAD may have difficulty forming healthy and secure relationships with their caregivers, and this can lead to a range of emotional and behavioral problems.

The stress and challenges of caring for a child with RAD can take a toll on the marriage of caregivers. Caregivers may experience significant emotional, physical, and financial stress as they work to manage the behaviors and needs of a child with RAD. This can lead to feelings of frustration, exhaustion, and even resentment towards one another.

Caregivers may also experience conflict or disagreement over how to best care for a child with RAD. For example, one partner may want to take a more permissive approach to managing behaviors, while the other may want to set stricter boundaries. These differences in parenting styles can lead to tension and conflict between partners, and can further exacerbate the stress and strain on the marriage.

Moreover, caring for a child with RAD can take a significant amount of time and attention, leaving little room for the partners to prioritize their own relationship. The emotional and physical demands of caregiving can leave caregivers feeling drained and emotionally disconnected from one another. This can further strain the relationship and lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness.

It is important for caregivers to seek support and resources to help manage the challenges of caring for a child with RAD. This may include therapy or counseling for the child, as well as support groups and respite care for caregivers. It is also important for partners to prioritize their relationship and to make time for each other, even in the midst of the demands of caregiving. Seeking out couples therapy or other forms of support can also be helpful in managing the impact of RAD on the marriage.
Apr 04, 202329:17
Death of The Unknown Biological Mother: Grieving and Mourning the Unknown

Death of The Unknown Biological Mother: Grieving and Mourning the Unknown

Part 1 of 3. I give some backstory to our situation. My daughter lost her biological mom to substance use disorder and a fentanyl overdose 3/4/23. It’s been very very difficult for her and it keeps getting harder.
Mar 17, 202343:30
Rad Valentine

Rad Valentine

Reactive Attachments on Valentine’s Day feels
Feb 14, 202330:04
Answering Your Questions

Answering Your Questions

Reactive Attachments answering a variety of questions that you guys have asked this year or that I receive regularly. Thank you everyone who has stuck with me over the years!! It means so much to me!
Jan 08, 202358:02
Emotional Intelligence Ramblings

Emotional Intelligence Ramblings

#reactiveattachments #radpod #reactiveattachmentdisorder
Dec 15, 202201:04:57
Reactive Holidays

Reactive Holidays

We discuss #rad triggers during holidays. #reactiveattachmemtdisorder during the holidays and we discuss college bad habits and how we’re navigating life.
Nov 24, 202201:06:21
She’s back! 18 yr old with RAD giving insight into the reality of her reactive attachment disorder

She’s back! 18 yr old with RAD giving insight into the reality of her reactive attachment disorder

In this episode we ask my now 18 year old discussing disassociation, triggers, nurturing enemy, awareness, and more!Maybe we’re RADULTING? #reactiveattachments is back with #radicalrealities #reactiveattachmentdisorder
Oct 28, 202224:09
When you don’t have all the answers.

When you don’t have all the answers.

How to transition when your kid turns 18? When things are good!!?? Fear of being invalidated! Send me your questions and let’s discuss your ideas!
Oct 24, 202218:59
Does Reactive Attachment Disorder Improve?
May 05, 202220:23
Reactive Expectations
May 25, 202136:52
Reactively Attached

Reactively Attached

Check it out! @reactiveattachments has some information about to share about the podcast! Time for a change y’all!
Mar 21, 202115:52
REACTIVE ATTACHMENTS IS BACK!

REACTIVE ATTACHMENTS IS BACK!

Taylor discusses fentanyl/drug abuse and what future RAD communities need to consider. Discussing a controversial response/opinion when is removal from biological parents necessary.
Jun 25, 202001:03:06
My Story Part 2: Unpopular Opinions Started This!
Jun 20, 202026:18
My Story Part 1: I was exactly like y’all!
Jun 20, 202029:57
Myka Stauffer rehomes Huxley Part 2

Myka Stauffer rehomes Huxley Part 2

Myka Stauffer Rehoming Huxley Part 2. This episode is a critical response to a few specific claims, details, and the verbiage regarding rehoming, monetization, utilizing state agency services; 2agencies etc... Part Part 1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI28xVLNA6o&t=1628 Listen to more content anytime! Check out the #reactiveattachments #podcast on your favorite podcasting app or use: #Anchor https://anchor.fm/reactiveattachments #ApplePodcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reactive-attachment-disorder/id1378967019 #MykaStauffer #rehomingHuxley
Jun 06, 202044:60
Myka Stauffer rehoming Huxley Part 1. Season 2 #9 The Fall of the Stauffer Youtube Family

Myka Stauffer rehoming Huxley Part 1. Season 2 #9 The Fall of the Stauffer Youtube Family

Myka Stauffer rehoming Huxley Part 1. This episode is a critical overview of the situation. The original video is linked: (https://youtu.be/ozthKDdSMZQ) Some of the Videos referenced are not available anymore I guess I am still looking for them. I have received episode requests on this topic for over a week. I’ve tried to record this episode multiple times but felt overwhelmed by floods of information & conjecture. I’ve decided to just post this iteration as it is close to the chest. I can’t consider everyone’s input. Part two: Rehoming Huxley Part 2 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reactive-attachment-disorder/id1378967019?i=1000477019333)
Jun 01, 202048:13
RAD Mother’s Day. Season 2 #8

RAD Mother’s Day. Season 2 #8

#radmothersday 

Mother’s Day is a difficult and exhausting day for many moms. Truthfully raising #rad kids is complex... Managing families of #reactiveattachmentdisorder is 24/7. I just wanted to tell you a few things in this short episode!

May 10, 202024:51
Vulnerability & Grief Season 2 #7

Vulnerability & Grief Season 2 #7

Being vulnerable around kids with reactive attachment disorder is hard. Discussing grief and showing emotion. Self care and addressing isolation.
May 03, 202035:14
Reactive Attachment Disorder Triangulation & Manipulation Ramblings Season 2 #6

Reactive Attachment Disorder Triangulation & Manipulation Ramblings Season 2 #6

#RAD Triangulation & Manipulations Ramblings. Outlining hypothetical scenarios and situations.
Apr 30, 202059:03
Adoption & Adoptee Trauma: Paul Sunderland Talk Season 2 #5
Mar 15, 202051:29
Doubting Aunt Debbie Season 2 #4

Doubting Aunt Debbie Season 2 #4

This is an attempt made to speak candidly, and directly, to those whom doubt the caregiver experience. Those rolling their eyes at the mention of RAD. For all of those whom you desperately want to HEAR YOU
Jan 22, 202042:56
RAD Hygiene Habits Season 2 #3

RAD Hygiene Habits Season 2 #3

Discussing the common hygiene battles of RAD community. Cleanliness isn’t common!
Dec 12, 201926:08
Baby dies from fentanyl Overdose

Baby dies from fentanyl Overdose

9mo Baby Niyear’s Fentanyl Overdose Death Results in 17 yr old mother, Alexus Taylor & 42 yr old Grandmother Jenny Anne Taylor’s Arrest.
Dec 09, 201927:13
#RADicalRealities Segment Explanation by Taylor

#RADicalRealities Segment Explanation by Taylor

#RadicalRealities Segment Explained. Expectations of Wednesday and Segment Projections Overview by Taylor. Dealing with Reactive Attachment Disorder Teens during a podcast project!
Mar 31, 201914:58
#RadicalRealities Episode #1 with RAD Teenager, Wednesday (& Mom Taylor).

#RadicalRealities Episode #1 with RAD Teenager, Wednesday (& Mom Taylor).

#RadicalRealities Segment Episode 1 is on air with your favorite RADical Teenager, Wednesday! My mom, Taylor is featured in my very first episode! We are talking about RAD and RAD caregivers.
Mar 26, 201941:01
RADRamblings #1.T Residential Treatment Vent

RADRamblings #1.T Residential Treatment Vent

This is a quick rant about #RTC in the RAD community. Taylor remembers a more unified opinion on RTC gives her random perspective on the trend.
Mar 21, 201923:26
Episode #1 Attachment Caregiving Reality Intro

Episode #1 Attachment Caregiving Reality Intro

Taylor and Danielle formally introduce themselves, overview their podcast objectives, and outline their RAD Caregiver experience. Highlighting the #ReactiveAttachmentsPodcast motivations + a macro view of their attachment disorder caregiver support journey.
Mar 18, 201933:31
Taylor’s Caregiver Support Test Episode

Taylor’s Caregiver Support Test Episode

Taylor independently discusses the Reactive Attachments Podcast plan in a novel attempt at a timo launch.
Mar 02, 201919:27