Taking Back Slut
By Jennifer Doan
Taking Back SlutJun 06, 2019
Episode 19: Living Apart - Decompression w/ Sean Amsing
In June, Sean and I decided to live apart for one month. I moved into an airbnb and we lived separately, only seeing one another twice per week. Sean and I talk about our feelings about our time living apart, as well as a few other tangents. It's tough to keep ourselves on topic. ;)
Episode 18: Control, Processing & Magic Mushrooms
Come on this unedited journey with me. I discuss my relationship with control, how drugs brought my fears up and how I process big emotions during quarantine (and always).
Episode 17: Are we OK?! w/ Christine Wild
Christine and I ramble on about what our lives are looking like in the wake of self-isolation. We talk mental health, libido, partner stuff, open relationships and lots of other meanderings. This is the kind of content you get when I talk to my friends. 🤷
Christine Wild is a passionate writer, on paper and in life. She’s a world-travelled, fiercely independent woman who doesn’t let much get in her way. Wild was born and raised in Geneva, Switzerland. She attended the University of British Columbia in Vancouver, BC, where she obtained a BA in International Relations. Since graduating, Christine has been up to all kinds of things... You can find all the juicy details in her memoir Just Bad Timing (Wild & Other Words, 2018)! Since 2018, Wild has split her time between the South of France, the Balkans and Vancouver, BC, where she currently resides. She is also the host of Running Wild With Christine, a podcast about sex, success and other slippery rabbit holes. You can find her @christinewild_ on the socials, and all other links at justbadtiming.com.
Donate to protection against Domestic Violence: https://www.bwss.org/
Purchase my course Go F**k Yourself: https://www.jenniferdoanconsulting.com/products/go-fk-yourself
Buy Christine's book: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/2970123002/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ep_dp_wVNNAb6FKWE4X
Episode 16: Anxiety in Weird Ass Times
My unfiltered ramblings on my own anxiety and how I've been coping during this insanity. Stay safe happy and filled with orgasms, my friends.
Episode 15: Sex Work is Work w/ Dani Nadeau
This week I talk to Dani about everything you've wanted to know about sex work and why someone would choose to be a sex worker. We cover the legalities, lifestyle and how we can support sex workers and become good allies.
Connect with Dani below and check out her podcast “50 Plus A Tip”
Instagram: @dan_nad or @50plusatip
Email: 50plusatip@gmail.com
Episode 14: Everything You Wanted to Know About Periods w/ Lilia Gestson
Lilia is an artist and menstrual equity activist located in Washington DC. She first became interested in the topic of menstruation after years of frustration with her own period. Now she strives to create an open dialogue around the topic.
In this episode, we answer all the questions sent in by listeners as well as talk about menstrual inequality and fighting to end the tampon tax. We discuss how to create a better relationship with our periods and how to create conversation around menstruation so all people are more informed and feel less fear & shame around the topic, regardless if they bleed or not.
Menstrual Cup Quiz:
Connect with Lilia:
https://www.instagram.com/lilia_gestson/
https://paintmeredblog.weebly.com/
Episode 13: Overcoming Default Masculinity w/ Carvell Wallace
Carvell Wallace is a New York Times bestselling author, podcaster memoirist, and a regular contributor to the New York Times Magazine. He was the parenting advice columnist for Slate Magazine and was a columnist at MTV News and has written for Pitchfork, GQ, Esquire, Glamour, ESPN and many others.
In this episode, Carvell opens up about his experience with childhood trauma and his long complicated relationship with his own sexuality. We discuss how he went from using sex as a barometer for success to connecting with intimacy and learning to see sex in a whole new light.
Episode 12: How to Have the Best Sex w/ Jordan Gray
In this episode, I talk to sex & relationship coach (and friend), Jordan Gray, about what makes amazing sex. Since I've known Jordan for 19 years, this episode was a lot of fun to record. We boil it down to the concepts of Presence, Abandon and Connection and deep dive into what each of those mean and what you can do to bring them into the bedroom. Come get a little silly with us!
Episode 11: Dance & Politics w/ Halena Seiferling
We discuss body shame and using dance to overcome it, women in government, politics and everything in between.
Episode 10: Communication, Trauma & Supporting the Ones We Love w/ Sarah Wilson
Resources:
Identity
outsidetheboxcounselling.ca/lgbtq-youth/
www.ambitgenderdiversity.com/resources/
www.ambitgenderdiversity.com/two-spirit/
www.phsa.ca/transcarebc/
Trauma
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Conflict Resolution/Intimacy
instagram.com/tanillegeib?igshid=1usw5ehl091eg
Episode 9: Consent Culture in Theatre w/ Mika Laulainen
In the past, it's been an unspoken understanding that actors should dive into any situation they find themselves in. But this can be triggering for some people. Especially when it comes to creating art that might centre around sex, sexual violence, physical altercations or anything that could cause a boundary to be crossed.
Mika and I chat about some of the work she's doing to create a safe, communicative space where actors can feel free to express their boundaries while still staying true to the art they're creating.
Episode 8: Anal Sex Tips for Newbies
Are you curious about anal play? Anal sex can be a fun, pleasurable experience that can lead to intense orgasmic experiences. But it can also be a bit scary and/or overwhelming. And that's ok! Here's my top tips for anyone looking to jump head first into butt stuff. ;)
Episode Links
Uberlube: https://amzn.to/32xLg0J
Episode 7: Open Relationships w/ My Husband Sean
FREE Energizing Orgasm Tutorial: jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
Episode 6: Ways We Give Away Our Power
Episode 5: My Big Bi Polyamorous Life
FREE Energizing Orgasm Audio Lesson: jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
Episode 4: How Supporting Women Makes You More Powerful
In this episode I chat about why it's beneficial for all of us to be on the same team and how you can learn to be supportive of another woman's success even if it sometimes feels difficult.
FREE Energizing Orgasm Tutorial: jennifer-doan.mykajabi.com/energizing-orgasm-audio-lesson
Ep.3 Is Your Vulva Normal?: 4 Vulva Myths
Episode 2: Taking Back Your Brain: Overcoming Body Shame
We can waste our whole life away, stuck in our brains, shaming and judging ourselves for things that only we can see. In this episode, I talk about some techniques to help you down the path of self-acceptance.
Notice I don't say self-love...
Here's a list of awesome body positive badass babes to follow on instagram. Let me know if I should add anyone.
@spookyfatbabe
@sitting_pretty
@mamacaxx
@michellelamour
@simonemariposa
@amputee_kat
@lizzobeeating
@evyan_whitney
@yrfatfriend
@thefatsextherapist
@shanboody
Episode 1: Breakups & Orgasms
This wasn't about sex (although that was part of the journey), this was about harnessing this powerful part of my self and giving my entire life a facelift. It was about stepping into the person I was meant to be so I could live the life I always wanted. Here's how I got there...